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How to Talk About Death

Death is an uncomfortable topic for the majority of people. It’s something most people don’t like to think about and would rather not engage in a discussion about. You may very well find yourself in a position one day where you’ll need to navigate these difficult conversations, whether or not you’re

5 Conversations to Have with a Terminally Ill Family Member

Conversations surrounding death are difficult and, at times, awkward, but these conversations are important in making sure your family member’s wishes are honored. Before having these conversations, always remember: Explain the importance of these conversations Acknowledge that it may

What Happens to Someone's Debt After They Die?

Many people may wonder, “Am I responsible for the debt of a deceased parent or relative?” or “What will happen to my debt after I die?” In short, it depends. Who is responsible for debt after someone dies? In general, a person’s estate is responsible for paying off any debts after his or

END-OF-LIFE CARE

What to Do When Someone Dies at Home

Losing a loved one is stressful in any setting and if you’re unsure what to do when someone passes away at home, it can make the situation a lot more stressful. If you’re in charge of a taking care of a loved one or just want to be prepared for the situation, it’s a good idea to understand the steps

What is Hospice Care?

When many people think of hospice care, they might incorrectly assume hospice care means it’s only for the elderly. Hospice care is an important aspect of medical care for anyone diagnosed with a terminal illness or those who are nearing the end of their life. What is hospice care? Hospice ca

What is an Advance Directive?

An advance directive is a legal document that outlines your wishes for care at the end-of-life. It covers two main topics: Your living will: Your decisions on when to receive medical care and what type of care you would like to receive in specific situations. For example, would you want

FUNERAL CUSTOMS

What is a Rosary Service?

Many religions have funeral rites or rituals that take place after someone dies. For Catholics, the rosary is a part of the traditional Catholic funeral rites. The rosary is a set of prayers said after

Jewish Funeral Traditions, Customs, and Beliefs

Jewish funerals involve many time-honored traditions and rituals that both Reform Jews and traditional Jews must abide by. The rituals are meant to honor the deceased and are important cultural practices. Jewish funerals are traditionally led by a rabbi at the family’s synagogue or at a Jewish funer

How Long are Funerals?

If you’ve never attended a funeral or if it has been a little while since you did last, you may wonder what to expect in terms of timing and the order of services. When thinking of a funeral, many people often assume a “funeral” includes all of the traditions associated with the death of a loved one

FUNERAL ETIQUETTE

How to Express Condolences via Email

Condolences typically were given at a funeral or via handwritten notes or cards, but with the invention of the internet, many have turned to email and online messaging as a way to express their condolences. Sending condolences is customary after someone dies, and most people will appreciate you gett

What to Bring to a Funeral or Memorial Service

If you’ve never been to a funeral service or memorial service before, it can be difficult to know what’s expected to you. Do you have flowers delivered before you arrive? Should you bring the family your home cooked meal at the service itself? What’s the protocol? Here’s what you need to know about

What is the Etiquette for Missing a Funeral

If someone you know has passed away and you’re on the fence about whether or not to attend, you’re not alone. Many people struggle with the idea of attending a funeral, and, if they decide not to attend, aren’t sure how to make amends for missing the funeral. Keep reading to find out more informatio

FUNERAL PLANNING

9 Sample Memorial Service Outlines

Memorial services are growing in popularity as more and more families find themselves turning away from the traditional, standard funeral service. If you find yourself in charge of hosting a memorial service, you’ll find the following information useful when planning a memorial service. How to

How to Include Remote Guests in a Funeral

If you’ve never hosted or attended an online funeral, knowing how to involve your guests can be confusing. If everyone’s muted all the time, how can anyone feel involved? What’s the best way to help people feel connected? Shou

What to Know Before Attending a Funeral via Zoom

Zoom funerals and other virtual funerals have seen a huge boost in popularity since the beginning of the pandemic. If you’ve never attended a virtual funeral, it may seem confusing or a little more technical than you’re used t

FUNERAL READINGS

10 Eulogy Examples

Eulogies are pieces of writing or funeral speeches that are typically shared at a funeral or gathering for someone who has passed away. The speeches often contain a description of the person who passed away, the kind of person they were and personal memories that the person delivering the eulogy fin

What to Say at a Celebration of Life Service

Celebrations of life are memorial services that are focused on celebrating the life of the deceased. This celebration can be considered a departure from traditional funeral services which generally hold a more somber and serio

What Does the Bible Say About Cremation?

Cremation is now the most common method of disposition in the United States, with experts at NFDA suggesting that almost 80% of Ameri

FUNERAL RECIPES

Funeral Salad Recipe

Because funerals have long been events that bring communities of people, common funeral recipes are generally easy (and affordable) to prepare for a large number of people, and funeral salad is no different. What is funeral salad? The use of

Funeral Potatoes Recipe

There are many different types of funeral events and structures to honor someone who has passed away, but it’s quite common to host a [funeral reception](https://everloved.com/articles/funeral-pla

Funeral Sandwiches Recipe

For many years, funeral receptions were usually held in a family members home, and friends and neighbors would bring food to pitch in. As a result, dishes that were easy to prepare for a large group of people became the n

FUNERAL SONGS

20+ Best Gospel Funeral Songs

It’s well known that the loss of a loved one can bring a community together to mourn as one. When a funeral mass features gospel music, it can be both inspiring and uplifting to a community while bringing people together in a difficult time. Gospel funeral music has a way of helping those who are in

20+ Best Christian Funeral Songs

After losing a loved one, it can be tough to find the right words to express what you feel. Playing a Christian funeral song for friends and family of the bereaved can be a beautiful way to honor a loved one while bringing people together in such a difficult time. Christian funeral music has a speci

20+ Best Funeral Hymns

Funeral hymns are a popular choice of religious music for funerals. There are dozens to choose from that can represent different tones, emotions, and experiences for a community. Funeral hymns can bring people comfort and joy at times of loss by bringing a community together to sing and be present t

LIVING WITH GRIEF

11 Ideas for a Baby Memorial

Losing a baby is one of the worst things that can happen to a parent. On top dealing with a terrible loss, parents are generally expected to plan a memorial, and most memorial resources are focused on adults. If you’ve recently lost a baby or infant, here are some ways you can memorialize your baby

11 Miscarriage Memorial Ideas

Even though as many as 1 in 4 pregnancies end in a miscarriage, miscarriages are often not spoken about or given a public event to experience grief (such as a funeral). This can leave parents unsure on how to process their loss and how to memorialize their miscarried baby. If you’re in need of misca

Coping with the Loss of a Mother or Father

Losing a parent as a supportive fixture Losing someone that’s close to you is incredibly difficult, no matter who it is. Losing a parent, however, is a uniquely difficult experience due to the foundation that most parents provide for their children. Coping with the loss of your mother or fathe

MEMORIAL PRODUCTS

15 Sympathy Gift Ideas

When people think of a sympathy gift or a gesture of solidarity after someone has lost a loved one, their mind usually goes to flowers. Flowers are an incredibly popular sympathy gesture to mak

10 Cheap Funeral Flower Options + Alternatives

Finding affordable flower arrangements can be tricky, especially when looking for flowers for funerals. Funeral flower arrangements can typically cost between $80 - $200, more money than folks sometimes expect. You can avoid spending too much money on funeral floral arrangements while still sending

A Complete Guide to Headstone Etiquette

Getting a headstone engraved is an incredibly important part of the burial process. As the saying goes, “once the headstone is engraved, it’s set in stone,” so knowing what you’d like engraved and having it planned out ahead of time is crucial. Here’s what to consider when having a headstone engrave

OBITUARIES AND FUNERAL ANNOUNCEMENTS

How to Create a Funeral Invitation

Sending out funeral invitations is an important part of the funeral planning process, as it ensures that all those who may be interested are aware services are taking place. Funerals are a space for folks to share their condolences with the family, pay their final respects, and say their goodbyes, o

13 Tribute Ideas for a Father who has Died

Paying tribute to a father who has passed away is a common gesture children and others want to make. You’ll often find tributes in books, art, film, poems, and other media, but these aren’t the only places to pay tribute to someone you’ve lost or to someone important to you. You can also pay tribute

What are Memorial Websites?

If you’re looking for a place to memorialize the life of someone you loved, share their story with others, and/or connect your community around the life of your loved one, a memorial website is a great place to start. What is a memorial website? A memorial website (which can be referred to

POST-DEATH LOGISTICS

Are Funeral Expenses Tax-deductible?

If you’ve recently paid for a funeral, you may be wondering whether or not you’re eligible for a funeral expenses tax deduction. While a tax deduction could be helpful (especially given the enormous cost of funerals), it i

How to Find a Will

Getting a copy of a will after a death is an unfamiliar experience to most people. Families may not be certain if their loved one had a will, relatives aren’t sure if they’ve been named, and many are unaware that the probate process can take years to complete. The good news is, finding a will isn’t

How to Ship Cremated Remains

Many families find themselves needing to ship the ashes of their loved ones either domestically or internationally, but it’s not as easy as putting the ashes in a box and sending them on their way. There are necessary rules and regulations to follow in almost all transportation situations, so it’s i

THE FUNERAL INDUSTRY

Meet a Funeral Director: Monecia Michelle Smith from Still Waters Funerals Services & Alkaline Hydrolysis

Monecia, how long have you worked at Still Waters Funeral Services? How did you first get into the profession? I have been working at Still Waters Funeral Services for alm

The Cremation Process: A Helpful Guide

Cremation is the most popular method of disposition in the United States and is estimated to be the chosen method of disposition for over 70% of Americans by 2030. While this is a large number of Americans, many people aren’t familiar with the intricacies of the cremation process. Here’s a helpful g

A Brief Guide to Funeral Homes

Finding the right funeral home isn’t easy, but it can be increasingly difficult if you aren’t sure what to look for in a funeral home or what funeral homes do. In this short guide, we provide answers to some frequently asked questions surrounding funeral homes. What does a funeral home do?