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How to Talk About Death

Death is an uncomfortable topic for the majority of people. It’s something most people don’t like to think about and would rather not engage in a discussion about. You may very well find yourself in a position one day where you’ll need to navigate these difficult conversations, whether or not you’re

5 Conversations to Have with a Terminally Ill Family Member

Conversations surrounding death are difficult and, at times, awkward, but these conversations are important in making sure your family member’s wishes are honored. Before having these conversations, always remember: Explain the importance of these conversations Acknowledge that it may

What Happens to Someone's Debt After They Die?

Many people may wonder, “Am I responsible for the debt of a deceased parent or relative?” or “What will happen to my debt after I die?” In short, it depends. Who is responsible for debt after someone dies? In general, a person’s estate is responsible for paying off any debts after his or

END-OF-LIFE CARE

How to Arrange Hospice Care at Home

If you or a loved one is facing a terminal illness, you may be considering hospice care at home. This type of care provides specialized support and resources to help manage symptoms and improve quality of life during the end of life,but arranging for hospice care at home can seem daunting, especiall

How to Find a Hospice Job

Looking for a job in the field of hospice care can be challenging, but there are many ways to find opportunities in this rewarding and fulfilling profession. Whether you are a recent graduate looking to enter the workforce, or an experienced professional seeking a change in career, here are some tip

What is Palliative Care?

One of the first questions you may have when looking into end-of-life care for a loved one (or when looking to offer relief to a loved one with a prolonged illness) is, "What is palliative care?" Palliative care is a type of healthcare that focuses on relieving the symptoms of serious illnesses, lik

FUNERAL CUSTOMS

A Guide to Funeral Flower Etiquette

Sending flowers to a funeral is one of the most common ways that folks choose to show support to a family after they’ve experienced a loss. If you haven’t sent an arrangement before, it can be difficult to know exactly what to send. Are all flowers and arrangements appropriate to send? When should y

What is a Rosary Service?

Many religions have funeral rites or rituals that take place after someone dies. For Catholics, the rosary is a part of the traditional Catholic funeral rites. The rosary is a set of prayers said after

Jewish Funeral Traditions, Customs, and Beliefs

Jewish funerals involve many time-honored traditions and rituals that both Reform Jews and traditional Jews must abide by. The rituals are meant to honor the deceased and are important cultural practices. Jewish funerals are traditionally led by a rabbi at the family’s synagogue or at a Jewish funer

FUNERAL ETIQUETTE

What to Wear to a Celebration of Life

When a celebration of life is announced, many people are unsure if they should come to the celebration in somber colors or bright colors. Is it considered bad taste to wear black or dark colors to a celebration of life? What about bright colors? Knowing the right outfit to choose can be confusing, b

A Complete Guide to Funeral Thank You Etiquette

Knowing who to send thank you notes to and who can go without after a funeral can be confusing. For example, should you send thank you notes for funeral flowers? Should you send a thank you note to someone who made a long journey to attend the funeral? Funeral thank you etiquette isn’t black and whi

How to Express Condolences via Email

Condolences typically were given at a funeral or via handwritten notes or cards, but with the invention of the internet, many have turned to email and online messaging as a way to express their condolences. Sending condolences is customary after someone dies, and most people will appreciate you gett

FUNERAL PLANNING

How to Plan an Informal Memorial Service

In charge of planning a memorial service but don't know where to start? You do not need to be a professional event organizer to put together a memorial service. In fact, many people choose to hold informal memorial services in their own homes or at a public venue. Here's how to plan an informal memo

12 Things You Can Do With Cremation Ashes

Having different opinions on what to do with ashes is common for families who have had a loved one cremated. Typically, cremains are scattered in a space that was special to the individual who has passed or that provides meaning to those still living. Most folks have heard of scattering ashes at se

How to Donate a Body to Science

When it comes time to plan for the final disposition of a loved one’s body after death, donation to science may be a good option, depending on your values. Donating your body to science is a way to help advance medical knowledge and research. There are a number of benefits to donating your body to s

FUNERAL READINGS

How to Write a Eulogy for a Friend

Writing a eulogy for a friend is a rare, but unfortunate, opportunity to publicly share and reflect on the meaning behind your relationship with said friend. It’s a unique moment to share with a group of people who loved this individual as much as you did and to connect with them over how much this

How to Write a Eulogy for a Sister

Writing a eulogy for a sister is a brief opportunity to reflect on how special your relationship was, how unique your sister was and what made her stand out from those around you. If you’ve never written a eulogy before, don’t worry! These steps will guide you through the process of writing a beauti

How to Write a Eulogy for a Mother

Writing a eulogy for a beloved mother is a rare opportunity to share with your friends, family, and loved ones the importance of your mother’s life in your own (and in the lives of others). For those who have never written a funeral speech for a mother, this may feel like a lot of pressure. How can

FUNERAL RECIPES

Funeral Salad Recipe

Because funerals have long been events that bring communities of people, common funeral recipes are generally easy (and affordable) to prepare for a large number of people, and funeral salad is no different. What is funeral salad? The use of

Funeral Potatoes Recipe

There are many different types of funeral events and structures to honor someone who has passed away, but it’s quite common to host a [funeral reception](https://everloved.com/articles/funeral-pla

Funeral Sandwiches Recipe

For many years, funeral receptions were usually held in a family members home, and friends and neighbors would bring food to pitch in. As a result, dishes that were easy to prepare for a large group of people became the n

FUNERAL SONGS

20+ Best Gospel Funeral Songs

It’s well known that the loss of a loved one can bring a community together to mourn as one. When a funeral mass features gospel music, it can be both inspiring and uplifting to a community while bringing people together in a difficult time. Gospel funeral music has a way of helping those who are in

20+ Best Christian Funeral Songs

After losing a loved one, it can be tough to find the right words to express what you feel. Playing a Christian funeral song for friends and family of the bereaved can be a beautiful way to honor a loved one while bringing people together in such a difficult time. Christian funeral music has a speci

20+ Best Funeral Hymns

Funeral hymns are a popular choice of religious music for funerals. There are dozens to choose from that can represent different tones, emotions, and experiences for a community. Funeral hymns can bring people comfort and joy at times of loss by bringing a community together to sing and be present t

LIVING WITH GRIEF

How to Help a Grieving Child

When someone dies, parents and family members are usually concerned over the child's well being and mental health. Death and grief affect children differently, especially when considering the developmental age of your child. They can go from being happy to crying and fearful in a matter of minutes.

How to Help a Grieving Friend

Comforting a grieving friend can feel stressful, awkward, and uncomfortable, especially if you’ve never experienced a loss yourself. It can be difficult to know what to say or what to do, but showing up and being there for them doesn’t have to be complicated. Here is some guidance on how to comfort

11+ Ideas for a Baby Memorial

Losing a baby is one of the worst things that can happen to a parent. On top dealing with a terrible loss, parents are generally expected to plan a memorial, and most memorial resources are focused on adults. If you’ve recently lost a baby or infant, here are some ways you can memorialize your baby

MEMORIAL PRODUCTS

8 Pet Memorial Ideas

Pets are oftentimes irreplaceable companions to both families and individuals that can sometimes be overlooked after they pass away. We don't frequently have a large event surrounding the death of an animal, even if they are considered part of the family. Without this ritual, it can be difficult to

15 Sympathy Gift Ideas

When people think of a sympathy gift or a gesture of solidarity after someone has lost a loved one, their mind usually goes to flowers. Flowers are an incredibly popular sympathy gesture to mak

10 Cheap Funeral Flower Options + Alternatives

Finding affordable flower arrangements can be tricky, especially when looking for flowers for funerals. Funeral flower arrangements can typically cost between $80 - $200, more money than folks sometimes expect. You can avoid spending too much money on funeral floral arrangements while still sending

OBITUARIES AND FUNERAL ANNOUNCEMENTS

How to Make a Beautiful Memorial Service Invitation

Planning a memorial service on your own can be a lot, especially after the loss of a loved one. Sending out invitations is an important part of this process, but it can be difficult to know where to start. Here’s some easy ways to send out invitations to friends and family when the time comes.

How to Find Out if Someone Died

Finding out if someone has died can sometimes be harder than you’d expect due to a lack of a single source that immediately reports deaths to those who are searching. If you’re trying to find out if someone passed away, here are some important places to check. How to find out if someone has die

12 Tips for Writing a Great Obituary

When writing an obituary, it can be difficult to know where to start. An obituary is meant to be a tribute to the life of a person who has passed away, and as such, should be thoughtfully written, but that doesn’t mean it has to be a chore. Think of an obituary as an opportunity to share your loved

POST-DEATH LOGISTICS

How to Find Out How Someone Died

Finding out that someone died is some of the worst news a person can get, especially if they weren't expecting it. If you’re trying to find out how they passed away, especially if it was unexpected, here are some ways you can go about finding out how someone died. How to find out how someone di

How to Search the Social Security Death Index

The Social Security Death Index (SSDI) is a database of death records created from the United States Social Security Administration's Death Index Master File. The SSDI generally includes all deaths that were reported to the Social Security from 1962 to the present, but you're sometimes able to find

What to Look for When Going through the Mail of a Deceased Loved One

Going through the mail of someone after they pass away is an important part of gathering documents that are likely to be needed during the probate process and/or when taking care of accounts for a deceased individual. Knowing which mail to keep and which to discard can feel confusing, but some prepa

THE FUNERAL INDUSTRY

What Does a Death Doula Do?

Death doulas are death educators, guides and companions for the dying. They provide emotional support to death's family members during this difficult time. They also help with practical needs such as helping the dying person make their final wishes known, informing them of end-of-life options and ma

How to Become a Death Doula

Death doulas perform similar work to birth doulas, except it surrounds death and the dying process. This work can range from logistical tasks such as handling paperwork to more spiritual tasks that help the family and individual feel guided through the process. Ready to learn more about becoming a d

How to Become a Mortician

Morticians, also known as funeral directors, are professionals that work with the dead. They prepare bodies for burial or cremation, they help families with funeral arrangements and ceremonies and they also help families during the grieving process. Here's what to know when it comes to becoming a mo