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Phalander "Phil-Philly-Capt-P" Patterson

Poughkeepsie, NY
August 15, 1960 - December 31, 2025
Aug 15, 1960 - Dec 31, 2025
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All Right! ALL Right !
2025, Poughkeepsie, NY, USA
All Right! ALL Right ! — with Phalander
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2025, Poughkeepsie, NY, USA
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Thank you for being the best big brother a sister could ever have. You taught me so much and encouraged me to trust myself. Even though you’re gone, I’m experiencing a whirlwind of emotions, especially since we were just in St. Lucia having fun together. I’m grateful to have met someone as amazing as you. Please continue to watch over me, big bro. My heart is shattered, but I will cherish all the memories we created, and your spirit will live on forever.
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2024, Poughkeepsie, NY, USA
Christmas — with Toni and Phalander
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