Notifications

No notifications
Load more
We will send an invite after you submit!
In memory of

Phalander "Phil-Philly-Capt-P" Patterson

Poughkeepsie, NY
August 15, 1960 - December 31, 2025
Aug 15, 1960 - Dec 31, 2025
  • Helping hands

    In lieu of flowers

    Please consider a gift to Families for Freedom.
    Learn more & giveRight arrow
  • Help keep everyone in the know by sharing this memorial website.

More

About

Memories

Give

Flowers

Obituary

Events

Timeline

Favorites

More

More

About

Memories

Give

Flowers

Obituary

Events

Timeline

Favorites

More

Memories & condolences

Tell story Tell story (selected)

Story

 Give condolences Give condolences (selected)

Condolence
Year (Optional)
Location (Optional)
Caption
YouTube/Facebook/Vimeo Link
Caption
Who is in this photo?
Or start with a template for inspiration
Cancel
By posting this memory, you agree to our Terms of Service and Privacy Notice.
This site is protected by reCAPTCHA and the Google Privacy Policy and Terms of Service apply.
Captain...  Bon Voyage..  Your smile and your warm greetings will be missed dearly.  Will hold all the memories of the late nights,  weekends and BSC parties we hung out at just enjoying life.  A prayer and a toast to you and your beautiful family my friend.  
Outline of a red heart indicating that you can add a heart to this memory by clicking on the heart icon 2
Speech bubble icon
Facebook button
Red heart Toni Callistro
Red heart
Red heart Tamara Mitchell
Close
New beginnings celebration
2019
New beginnings celebration
Outline of a red heart indicating that you can add a heart to this memory by clicking on the heart icon 3
Speech bubble icon
Facebook button
Red heart Janay Cauthen
Red heart Chrissy Reeves
Red heart
Red heart Toni Callistro
Close
2013
Outline of a red heart indicating that you can add a heart to this memory by clicking on the heart icon 3
Speech bubble icon
Facebook button
Red heart Janay Cauthen
Red heart Chrissy Reeves
Red heart
Red heart Toni Callistro
Close
Helping hands

In lieu of flowers

Please consider a gift to Families for Freedom.
Learn more & giveRight arrow
Ossie Wallace's Retirement Pa…
2025, NYC, NY, USA
Ossie Wallace's Retirement Party- 09/2025
Outline of a red heart indicating that you can add a heart to this memory by clicking on the heart icon 2
Speech bubble icon
Facebook button
Red heart Chrissy Reeves
Red heart
Red heart Toni Callistro
Close
Shared a heart Red heart
Outline of a red heart indicating that you can add a heart to this memory by clicking on the heart icon 0
Speech bubble icon
Facebook button
Red heart
Close
Flower

Send flowers

Share your sympathy. Send flowers from a local florist to Phalander's family or funeral.
Browse sympathy flowersRight arrow
Shared a heart Red heart
Outline of a red heart indicating that you can add a heart to this memory by clicking on the heart icon 0
Speech bubble icon 2
Facebook button
Red heart
Close
Comments:
  • Please make sure you've written a comment before it can be published. If you prefer to remove your comment, you can delete it.
  • Sorry, we had some trouble updating your comment.
  • Please make sure you've written a comment before it can be published. If you prefer to remove your comment, you can delete it.
  • Sorry, we had some trouble updating your comment.
 Sunshine, I am going to miss you terribly. Anytime that I was feeling down and went to your workstation, you always greeted me with a big smile and kind, reassuring words that turned my storms into sunlight. I am so thankful that God allowed our paths to cross before he realized your beautiful spirit was needed in heaven. I hope our friendship brought you even a fraction of the joy that yours brought into my life. Losing you leaves an ache, but knowing you leaves a light as bright as the sun. Rest in Peace!
Outline of a red heart indicating that you can add a heart to this memory by clicking on the heart icon 2
Speech bubble icon
Facebook button
Red heart Janay Cauthen
Red heart
Red heart Toni Callistro
Close
Celebrating my Birthday in 20…
Celebrating my Birthday in 2024
Outline of a red heart indicating that you can add a heart to this memory by clicking on the heart icon 3
Speech bubble icon
Facebook button
Red heart Robin Lester
Red heart Chrissy Reeves
Red heart
Red heart Toni Callistro
Close
Outline of a red heart indicating that you can add a heart to this memory by clicking on the heart icon 3
Speech bubble icon
Facebook button
Red heart Robin Lester
Red heart Chrissy Reeves
Red heart
Red heart Toni Callistro
Close
I'm going to miss you tremendously my dear Friend. Such a pleasure to be around and always the life of the party. So many special memories that I will always keep close to my heart. SIP My Friend.♥️
Outline of a red heart indicating that you can add a heart to this memory by clicking on the heart icon 1
Speech bubble icon
Facebook button
Red heart Chrissy Reeves
Red heart
Close

My Brother has been taken. He is in good hands now  .. Gone too soon. He always called me Brother Man.. so I say RIP Brother Man..  

Outline of a red heart indicating that you can add a heart to this memory by clicking on the heart icon 2
Speech bubble icon
Facebook button
Red heart Janay Cauthen
Red heart
Red heart Tamara Mitchell
Close
Shared a heart Red heart
Outline of a red heart indicating that you can add a heart to this memory by clicking on the heart icon 2
Speech bubble icon
Facebook button
Red heart Janay Cauthen
Red heart
Red heart Tamara Mitchell
Close
Mta Crew
2008
Outline of a red heart indicating that you can add a heart to this memory by clicking on the heart icon 5
Speech bubble icon
Facebook button
Red heart Janay Cauthen
Red heart Robin Lester
Red heart Chrissy Reeves
Red heart
Red heart Tamara Mitchell
Red heart Tamara Mitchell
Close
Outline of a red heart indicating that you can add a heart to this memory by clicking on the heart icon 2
Speech bubble icon 1
Facebook button
Red heart Janay Cauthen
Red heart
Red heart Robin Lester
Close
Comments:
  • Please make sure you've written a comment before it can be published. If you prefer to remove your comment, you can delete it.
  • Sorry, we had some trouble updating your comment.
Shared a heart Red heart
Outline of a red heart indicating that you can add a heart to this memory by clicking on the heart icon 1
Speech bubble icon
Facebook button
Red heart Janay Cauthen
Red heart
Close
Phalander in the 2015 Five Bo…
2015, New York, NY, USA
Phalander in the 2015 Five Boro Bike Tour
Outline of a red heart indicating that you can add a heart to this memory by clicking on the heart icon 4
Speech bubble icon
Facebook button
Red heart Chrissy Reeves
Red heart Janay Cauthen
Red heart
Red heart Robin Lester
Red heart Tamara Mitchell
Close
Enjoying fun times at Radio S…
Enjoying fun times at Radio Star
Outline of a red heart indicating that you can add a heart to this memory by clicking on the heart icon 2
Speech bubble icon
Facebook button
Red heart Janay Cauthen
Red heart
Red heart Chrissy Reeves
Close
Outline of a red heart indicating that you can add a heart to this memory by clicking on the heart icon 2
Speech bubble icon
Facebook button
Red heart Janay Cauthen
Red heart
Red heart Robin Lester
Close
Outline of a red heart indicating that you can add a heart to this memory by clicking on the heart icon 3
Speech bubble icon
Facebook button
Red heart Janay Cauthen
Red heart Robin Lester
Red heart
Red heart Chrissy Reeves
Close
Outline of a red heart indicating that you can add a heart to this memory by clicking on the heart icon 4
Speech bubble icon
Facebook button
Red heart Janay Cauthen
Red heart Robin Lester
Red heart
Red heart Chrissy Reeves
Red heart Tamara Mitchell
Close
Outline of a red heart indicating that you can add a heart to this memory by clicking on the heart icon 4
Speech bubble icon
Facebook button
Red heart Janay Cauthen
Red heart Robin Lester
Red heart
Red heart Chrissy Reeves
Red heart Tamara Mitchell
Close
Outline of a red heart indicating that you can add a heart to this memory by clicking on the heart icon 5
Speech bubble icon 1
Facebook button
Red heart Chrissy Reeves
Red heart Janay Cauthen
Red heart Robin Lester
Red heart
Red heart Felicia Williams
Red heart Tamara Mitchell
Close
Comments:
  • Please make sure you've written a comment before it can be published. If you prefer to remove your comment, you can delete it.
  • Sorry, we had some trouble updating your comment.
Lobster Cruise Nyc
Outline of a red heart indicating that you can add a heart to this memory by clicking on the heart icon 5
Speech bubble icon
Facebook button
Red heart Janay Cauthen
Red heart Alecia Brown
Red heart Robin Lester
Red heart
Red heart Chrissy Reeves
Red heart Tamara Mitchell
Close
Outline of a red heart indicating that you can add a heart to this memory by clicking on the heart icon 4
Speech bubble icon
Facebook button
Red heart Cynthia Livingston
Red heart Janay Cauthen
Red heart
Red heart Robin Lester
Red heart Chrissy Reeves
Close
Phalander and the Crew
2023
Phalander and the Crew
Outline of a red heart indicating that you can add a heart to this memory by clicking on the heart icon 3
Speech bubble icon
Facebook button
Red heart Janay Cauthen
Red heart Robin Lester
Red heart
Red heart Chrissy Reeves
Close

Want to see more?

Get notified when new photos, stories and other important updates are shared.
Your Email

Get grief support

Connect with others in a formal or informal capacity.
View grief support Right arrow
Helping hands

In lieu of flowers

Please consider a gift to Families for Freedom.
Learn more & giveRight arrow
Flower

Send flowers

Share your sympathy. Send flowers from a local florist to Phalander's family or funeral.
Browse sympathy flowersRight arrow
Created with love by Janay Cauthen (Phalander's sister).
flag icon Report memorial
×

Stay in the loop

Phalander "Phil-Philly-Capt-P" Patterson