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Phalander "Phil-Philly-Capt-P" Patterson

Poughkeepsie, NY
August 15, 1960 - December 31, 2025
Aug 15, 1960 - Dec 31, 2025
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Tamara's Retirement Party
2025, Chef Yu, 8th Avenue, New York, NY, USA
Tamara's Retirement Party — with Tamara Mitchell and Phalander
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My condolences to the family. My heart is heavy cause we lost a real one.  Rest in paradise the final frontier. You’ll truly be missed but not forgotten 
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Ny cond to the whole family
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2026, Message me for memorial tees 347-219-3254
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May the cause  that Phil was so passionate about help others in need just as he always helped others with such fierce determination to make a difference in the world.   God rest his wonderful  soul.  Love Dan and Kathy Tappen
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I was truly sorry to hear of our friend Philander passing. Philander will be remembered for his kindness and dedication. Sending heartfelt condolences.
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I'm very sorry to hear about Phalander. A very shocking news. He was always smiling, helpful and a humble soul. Will miss him. I guess heaven got a promotion with another great soul. He's with God in peace. May God of peace comfort family, friends and co-workers. In Jesus's name.
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I have counted Philander as a great friend for 10+ years now. We met at Nunez cafe and managed to meet there almost every Wednesday for at least the last 7 years. I am so sorry for this loss and will truly miss him and our convos. RIP friend. I hope you’re on the best beach with the best drinks and wings 💙
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So so sad in the passing of our dear friend Phil. He was a man of integrity, humility , kindness, and goodness .He always was concerned about others  . He made us all laugh and love more in this world   May he rest in Gods loving arms 💙
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