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My condolences to the family. My heart is heavy cause we lost a real one.  Rest in paradise the final frontier. You’ll truly be missed but not forgotten 
May the cause  that Phil was so passionate about help others in need just as he always helped others with such fierce determination to make a difference in the world.   God rest his wonderful  soul.  Love Dan and Kathy Tappen
I was truly sorry to hear of our friend Philander passing. Philander will be remembered for his kindness and dedication. Sending heartfelt condolences.
I'm very sorry to hear about Phalander. A very shocking news. He was always smiling, helpful and a humble soul. Will miss him. I guess heaven got a promotion with another great soul. He's with God in peace. May God of peace comfort family, friends and co-workers. In Jesus's name.
I have counted Philander as a great friend for 10+ years now. We met at Nunez cafe and managed to meet there almost every Wednesday for at least the last 7 years. I am so sorry for this loss and will truly miss him and our convos. RIP friend. I hope you’re on the best beach with the best drinks and wings 💙
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So so sad in the passing of our dear friend Phil. He was a man of integrity, humility , kindness, and goodness .He always was concerned about others  . He made us all laugh and love more in this world   May he rest in Gods loving arms 💙

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Phalander "Phil-Philly-Capt-P" Patterson