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We loved hanging out on the sidelines with Steve. Such a great Dad. 
I realize my message is a bit late but I want to send my condolences to your entire family. Although Steve and I never stayed in touch, I do have some great memories of working together with him at the Red Wing diner when we were teenagers. Steve had a way of making every situation something to laugh about. I really regret not staying in touch. The Red Wing was my first job out of high school and met Steve who already had been working there. We had great times and many laughs working together but the one thing I do remember was the car he owned (and loved) at the time was a red Chevy EL Camino SS. What a beautiful car that was! Anyway, I still treasure those memories as a teenager and getting to know Steve back then. I’m so sorry for your loss. 
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Recon missions , southeastern regional, knew Steven from the neighborhood for over 50yrs, very sorry to hear such a well liked guy , condolences to franny and kids, brother Richard he will leave a huge hole but never forget the great memories he left behind, I won't 
My condolences to the Derry family.  I worked with Steve here at Instron. Our connection was our love of Cape Breton, as my family in East Lake Ainslie is about 20mi south of where Steve went! Steve was a nice guy and always willing to chat, we'll miss him here.
Although we only knew Steven for such a short time through having our mothers share a room at the nursing home,  our family could instantly see the gift that he brought to this world.   The bird feeders that he filled to make the other patients see beauty every day, the times he sat with our Mom Nancy when she was sitting in the family room and having a bad day, the casual calmness that he provided us in moments of concern for our Mom, were only a few examples.  When I would walk in the room and your family was there I would often say to myself, what a beautiful and loving family they are.  We were blessed to be a part of his life and your family's lives while at Maples - we will forever remember his kind spirit and GIVING ways.  We send our love and prayers to all of you.   Nancy Deebs Children and families.  
Steven was a great father and husband, as well as a fun loving in-law within the Costello clan.  I have wonderful memories of the times we were together when he and Fran hosted Christmas Eve at their home as well at other family functions.  Steven will always exist in my life through my thoughts and prayers.  

Your words are such a beautiful tribute to your Dad, Kathryn. What a rare and special man. We always smile wide as we drive pass your house, making sure to say hello to the rock sculptures flanking the driveway. Coolest greeters there could be. So terrific that your Dad not only dreamed them up, but triple amazing that he successfully executed the project so long ago for everyone to enjoy.  That says a whole lot; your words round out how normal this type of act was for Steven.

We are so, so sorry for this devastating loss. All our heartfelt condolences to Fran, you, Charlie, Shane, Shannon, Dwight, Rich, and all the rest of your family.

Holding you all in our hearts, 

Maureen and Scott Goldman

Our most sincerest condolences on the loss of Steven. May his gentle spirit be surrounding your family and loved ones. He is now united back together with his beloved mother,  Barbara. Prayers for the Derry’s….sending blessings from the Springstead and Gilchrist family. 
Shocking news! He was always smiling and such a nice guy. My deepest condolences to the family.
My deepest condolences to the Derry family. I had the privilege of working with Steve, and we often bonded over music and adventure. He was always on the lookout for new bands to discover, and if he thought I'd like something, he'd eagerly recommend it. He had an incredible taste in music. Beyond that, we'd frequently chat about his son Shane's latest adventures—Steve would share pictures and talk about how we'd have to meet up and go rock climbing someday. Steve was not only a fantastic coworker but also one of the funniest and most genuine people I've had the pleasure of knowing. He will be deeply missed.

Fran, 

     Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.

May God give you the strength to get through this time of sorrow. You are in our prayers.

       Sincerely, 

                     Al & Judy Doo

Heartbreaking news.  Sending deepest condolences to the Derry family. 

I’d like to extend my heartfelt condolences to Dwight, Billy, to Steven’s wife, children and grandchildren,

Steven was a childhood friend of mine. We played together everyday from sun up til sunset. We played with his train set, each one of us wearing striped conductors hats. We rode our bikes (the ones Dwight would put  together & paint) throughout the neighborhood or on adventures lead by Barbara.   We trick or treated together, always being scared by Dwight as we ran past his garden.  We floated our blowup rafts in the nearby swamp. We rescued little birds and had full-fledged neighborhood funerals for the ones that didn’t make it.  Steven, I'm sorry I bit you when I was 5… I don’t know what got into me! Steven was an amazing friend in those early days, he always comes to mind when reminiscing about my childhood, prior to us moving to Canada.

I visited the Derry’s at their cottage in Cape Breton years back and to my surprise, Steven was there…for the day our friendship picked up right where it left off.    

Steven will be fondly remembered forever❤️

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I’ve been lucky enough to know and love Steven for the better part of 30 years, and my entire life. As a second dad, and my dad’s very best friend, the Derry’s and Fraser’s became one each Summer. Steven welcomed me and my siblings as his own with the barn and cabin doors always wide open. After a few years I think he almost expected to have us sitting on the steps when he drove in that Saturday night in July and that we would be parked in the loft for the following two weeks. The question stopped being “can Lara come over” to “why isn’t Lara here?” if a day went by, and he truly made us feel that sense of comfort in his home, like we were one of his own. One of the things I admired most about Steven was his profound love for his family, and the equal love he gave to each person he crossed paths with. Steven always had a hand to lend to someone that needed it.

The last few days I’ve been flooded with special and funny memories, as well as an immense amount of life lessons Steven shared with me. From trips down the river in the river rats (he taught me to never grab the trees!), sunsets at the beach, hamburger rock sculptures, hanging on to all of the toonies & loonies, and everything in between Steven has been right in the centre with the biggest smile, most comical jokes, and caring heart.

I recall a summer years ago when I had decided to take a full jug of prepared lemonade at the river (sorry Fran!) and dump it down Steven’s back. In response with the biggest laugh, Steven lifted me up and tossed me right into the river. Another one that stands out was a day Kathryn and I came home and walked into the barn where Steven waited in the kitchen. He pointed to the floor and said “oh no! Blaze crapped!” Then picked up the suspicious object and took a big bite. In our utter disgust and panic Steven burst into laughter, because he actually rolled up a baked brownie and placed it on the floor waiting for us to come in.

He was always ready to give and take a joke, which made him such an incredible energy to be around.

I still can’t picture a summer or world without him in it, but I know we will continue to build those rock sculptures, collect the hamburger rocks & toonies, watch for him at the harbour in the sunsets, and that he will be right there.

To the Derrys, my other family, I wish I could find words to take away the pain, but know I love you all so very much. Steven was so proud of you all and will be with you in everything you do. 

Saturday morning DD will never be the same. There was nothing that Steve could not teach me and talk about. I always looked forward to seeing him, as well as Fran when she came in.  My heart is broken, but I do believe that he knew how much everyone loved him. My son Adam is devastated. They always had nice talks when Adam was here from Denmark. Fran, my heart goes out to you on the loss of Steve. You two were certainly partners in life. I wish you continued strength and love. Steve will never be far away from my thoughts. Be strong, be strong and you will be strengthened. With love and caring for you - Fern

So sorry to hear this news today 

Always a wonderful support and friend to my husband and rich and family are special to me too since Ed’s passing 

Keeping you all in my heart ♥️ as we move into 2025 🙏😘

Charlie & I have too many funny stories to share, but we will treasure them all even more now. We also have so many of his creations that he will never be forgotten. We are still in shock over losing you as such a true friend, and all our laughs. We are heartbroken for your entire family. We are sending our deepest condolences and wish we could be there to give you all hugs. We are gonna miss "buttercup"
My condolences to Steve’s  family. I first met Steve 5 years ago at Instron. As a new employee he was always so helpful when I was looking for things or just finding my way around.  I then found out he was from Cape Breton  Island in Canada and that he vacationed there often so when  I mentioned my family and my husbands is from NB Canada and that I also visited there, we would often talk about our vacations . I could see how much he loved it there when he would talk about it! Then a couple years ago I mentioned how I was growing raspberries in my yard and he said “would you like more I have peach colored ones” I said yes and he brought me in work rooted rasberries in a box! Well it’s been 2 years and they are growing so now I will have those to remember him by!! He was so kind in every way. He will be  missed. RIP

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