Rose-Marie Menes, my sister.
My sister, Rose-Marie, was name for a song, “Oh, Rose-Marie I Love You” sung by Nelson Eddy. At a very young age Rose-Marie would walk on her toes. She would curl those toes back and walk as if she was wearing pointe shoes. People would see this and say, “Look, she’s going to be a ballerina”,
When a dance studio opened in our area of Hialeah, Fl. We were enrolled in the ballet class. Our teacher put Rose-Marie in pointe shoes at the age of 6. Shortly after that our father, David Menes who was a carpenter by trade, was working in Coral Gables, Fl and saw this Russia man teaching ballet with his wife playing the piano for the classes. I still remember that day when our father came home and told our mother, if Rose-Marie was going to dance this where she needs to study.
At age 7 and 9 we began to study with Mr. George Milenoff who was of the Imperial Ballet School in Russia. Rose-Marie loved the ballet and continued her lessons. Our mother, Ruth Menes, went to work as a seamstress in the sweat factories in Miami, she learned to drive and bought a second car so there would be money/transportation for her lessons. Four times a week they would travel 30 minutes for a lesson and Mr. Milenoff would always invite Rose-Marie to stay to lead the next class giving her two hours of training then a 30 minute ride home. Once home we would have dinner as a family then homework and to bed.
Mr Milenoff was a very interesting person. He would talk about himself, how he once danced with Anna Pavlova, as a young man he knew Pablo Picasso, he taught Alicia Alonso in Cuba any more interesting facts about himself.
When we were in 7 th and 8 th grade our school was having a talent show. I auditioned to play the piano with the one piece of music I had memorized, “Moonlight Sonata” by Ludwig Van Beethoven. Then here comes a ballet dancer with her own pianist to dance to the “Moonlight Sonata”. I talked to her about changing her music but she wouldn’t so, I did the next best thing. I talked my sister into being in the talent show. I don’t remember much more about that talent show but I do remember Rose-Marie was the only ballet dancer and I got to play piano.
After high school Rose-Marie moved to New York City. She loved New York. She went to work for Bonwit Teller. When she learned that Radio City Music Hall was hiring ballet dancers she went to the audition. She became discourage when she saw the amount of dancers that were there. She decided to leave thinking she didn’t have a chance to get a position. As she was leaving a stagehand stopped her and encouraged her to stay, she did and she was hired. I remember my sister telling us, they asked her if she could do fouettés? Her answer was, “How many do you want me to do?”
During her career she danced for Princess Grace of Monaco. When Rudoff Nureyev saw her danced he wanted her as his ballerina but she returned to New York. Years later she met and married Bernie Werner and Sonia was born. Sonia was the light of her world and she wanted to give her everything. She loved her so very much.
Many have known Rose-Marie as a friend, co-worker, as your teacher, as a brother-in-law, as a husband or as your mother. I will remember her as my sister, Rose-Marie Menes, Prima Ballerina.
Love you and miss you,
Virginia Menes Petersen