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Rob was working as an administrator for a small independent living apartments where I live in California a few years ago . He was kind and thoughtful and had a special gentle soul that shone ever so brightly . Oh, and Rob had a terrific sense of humor .I will always cherish our talks and shared the love of animals and nature .too. He will be missed  yet I know  Rob is and always will be a shining light and continuing to be a blessing . 
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I met Rob through my sister Kim’s relationship in college. He wrote this wonder story of her in the Chicken Soup for College Souls. I would keep in touch with Rob over the years and get together when schedules worked out. Last time was probably at my home in Charleston or maybe at Rose Bowl for a Georgia football game. I was meaning to call him to see how he was doing, so while at my parents house I  tried to call him today and got a weird automated response. Something g told me something was wrong, and then I find the obituary. I am very saddened by his death. Such a kind soul. We were fraternity brothers at Georgia, although I was already gone when he arrived. My sister was close to him. 

My deepest sympathies to his sister and extended family. Rest in peace, brother 

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Today, September 24, 2023, we celebrate the life of a remarkable and extraordinary person being: Rob. My heart is filled with memories of a man who was a close friend of mine.

Rob had a personality that was larger than life.

Today we honor Rob, not with tears of sorrow, but with memories filled with love and gratitude. May his spirit continue to guide us, may his love continue to inspire us, and his memory continue to comfort us.

I know how much Rob meant to us and understand how deeply we will miss him. Rob's laughter and joy will stay with us for the rest of our lives. He left this world far too soon but the impact he made will last for generations.

We will miss Rob deeply but his spirit lives on in the kindness he brought out in others. You are always in our hearts.

Rob dreamed of becoming a writer and screenwriter and his dream came true. Rob considered his favorite movie of all his films, his first movie "Three Days" (December 9, 2001).

"It was my first produced project and will always have a special place in my heart." Robert Tate Miller.

The original story and teleplay was conceived and written by Robert Tate Miller while living in the North Hollywood neighborhood of Los Angeles.

"I was inspired by Frank Capra's It's a Wonderful Life," Rob said. "I wanted to write a story with heart and, unlike most scripts which take many weeks to hammer out, Three Days came very quickly. It was as if the story wrote itself."

When his first screenplay “Three Days” was picked up in 2001 and made into a successful movie for the Hallmark Channel, Rob became a 13-year overnight sensation.

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"How this man's script leapt to TV - sort of. A screenwriter gets a taste of Hollywood humble pie"

December 7, 2001

By Robert Tate Miller Special to The Christian Science Monitor

"One of my favorite movie moments has Jimmy Stewart stumbling joyously down the snowy streets of Bedford Falls in Frank Capra's classic "It's A Wonderful Life." So, I suppose I had George Bailey in the back of my mind when, one February morning in 1996, I decided to write my own Christmas classic.

What if someone you loved died, and you were given the chance to live over the last three days of their life knowing you'd lose them all over again? It was with this premise that I sat down at my computer to begin work. I called my script "Three Days" and plunged ahead.

For the next several weeks, alone at my computer, I determined everything about my characters: What they looked like, what they did for a living, how they liked their eggs. It would be the only time in the entire process when I would have the power. I didn't know it then, but I would soon find out that, when it comes to the Hollywood food chain, writers fall somewhere between field mouse and possum.

Almost anybody in the business will tell you - the odds of a movie going from your hard drive to the screen are somewhat greater than the earth reversing its course around the sun. So, when the first producer that read "Three Days" said yes, I was taken off guard. It all seemed too easy. But, the next thing I knew, one of the big four networks had signed on, and I was looking forward to the next stage of the moviemaking process, naively assuming that I would be holding hands with the producer every step of the way.

That's when I discovered that not only would I be out of the loop, but I'd need a telescope to see it.

"The deal is off." The producer's terse e-mail bidding me and my script bon voyage took me by complete surprise. As far as I knew, everything was sailing along. I wouldn't find out until months later that she had killed the deal by insisting that her novice husband be the director and claiming falsely that I had brought the project to him first. The network balked, and "Three Days" was dead in the water.

After a few weeks of mourning, I sat down at my computer and began to write again. This proved to be the best course of action because, as I continued to work on other stories, I forgot all about my little Christmas movie. Then, one day, out of the blue, another producer called and said she had read a copy of my script, loved it, and wanted to make my movie.

Soon, another network said they were interested, and I was back on the roller coaster again. This time, however, my expectations were tempered, and I determined to keep my hopes under close watch. It was a good decision because, shortly thereafter, network No. 2 backed out and "Three Days" was an orphan again.

By this time, I had figured out that the only way I was going to survive the emotional turmoil of being a screenwriter was to adopt a new policy: "Once you write it, let it go." No more waiting by the phone. I'd like to report that the day after I had this epiphany my script sold - but that would be too much of a Hollywood ending. It took a few months.

"Three Days" went before the cameras Feb. 5, 2001, five years, three networks, and several producers from the moment I began writing. From the moment it sold, to the day it wrapped, I had many more opportunities to taste the bitter filling of Hollywood humble pie. But by then, I had long grown accustomed to the taste.

What have they done to my movie?! This brings us to that magical moment every screenwriter relishes and dreads. "Three Days" had just been delivered to my doorstep and, naturally, I immediately popped it in the VCR and began my solo screening. For the next couple of hours, I sat alone in the dark watching what sounded and looked a bit like something I once wrote.

When it finished, I couldn't help myself. I watched it again. And then again. And yet again.

It was on the fourth or fifth viewing that a change began to come over me. I started to realize that while it wasn't exactly as I had written it, my original story was still there. And, to be honest, their version of my movie was actually quite good. As I watched the tearful ending one last time, I tried to remember what those characters had looked like when I had first imagined them and suddenly it dawned on me - they looked just like the actors."

The premiere of the film "Three Days" was on December 9, 2001, at 20:00 on ABC Family channel.

I have known Rob for over 35 years - his mother was a second mom to me and his sister a dear friend.  I am so saddened by his passing.  He leaves an amazing legacy with regard to his writing, his movies, his compassion, ability to inspire others and his relationships with his many friends and family.  He will be greatly missed and always loved.
I had the utter pleasure and joy of working with Rob last year on our CBS film, "When Christmas Was Young." What a lovely, incredibly kind and giving soul he was. To top it all off, his love for telling inspiring and uplifting stories, was magical! I quickly learned on set of our mutual love for all things tea and was so happy to take him to afternoon tea for his first time, last year in Vancouver. Oh how we laughed and enjoyed such good conversation! I could honestly listen to Rob sharing his adventures and life experiences, all day long. He was a special human. I'm so deeply saddened to hear of his passing. He had so many more beautiful stories to tell the world, but I am so grateful for the ones he has shared, including ours. God rest his gentle soul. He is dearly missed by many. 

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