I met Reg in 2005, he was my master's and dissertation advisor, mentor, and friend. Reg had a great impact on my life, I am still processing how much. Long after graduate school, Reg showed care and interest in my life. He referred to himself jokingly as "uncle Reg" to my kids. I will always miss him.
Reg loved students and teaching as much as he loved writing and research. His undergraduate courses were usually scheduled one day a week for 3 hours, and students would talk non-stop in his classes. He was extremely brilliant, yet humble. Student's hands would fly up to participate, and he would write their names down one-by-one and take their comments in order. Many of us loved TA'ing for him because he was easy to be around, his classes were interesting, and he insisted on grading most of his own papers! That is how much he cared about his undergraduate students, he wanted to closely read their work himself. He often told me that students were what kept him going, and he drew a lot of inspiration from them.
For many of us that knew him as graduate students, whether we worked with him or not, Reg gave us many invaluable gifts. He was generous with his time, and provided much needed emotional support. He was especially a treasure for first-generation, non-White, multiracial students, and those that did not "fit" into the norms of society and academia. He had a way of validating our thoughts and ideas, and helping us make sense of our experiences. Reg helped me become a better writer. When I entered graduate school, I was a single mom, I came from poverty, I was not very well-prepared, and just like any first-year student, I was terrified to show my writing. I was a two-finger typer, I still am. Reg meticulously edited all of my writing, he carefully reviewed each comment he made about my writing with me, we spent hours on the phone doing this! To say he was a caring and generous mentor is an understatement.
While Reg was my mentor, he was was most importantly my friend. I am grateful for the time we spent talking over the phone during the pandemic. There is so much more that can be said about Reg, this only touches the surface. I know many of us feel fortunate that we crossed life paths with this incredible human being. Much love and hugs to those that are grieving.
-Rebecca, Los Angeles, CA