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Birthday
Wyckoff, NJ, USA
Birthday — with Meg Dougher

Imagine a lively family gathering at Lake George NY, where childhood cousins are having fun playing games, laughing, and running around. Suddenly, my brother, Bob rushes into the cabin and hides under the bed. My mother sensing something is not right decides to investigate. She finds him under the bed and asks him what's going on. He replies in a tearful, trembling voice, “There’s so much blood."

Mother is filled with terror and rushes outside to find out what has happened. She discovers that Meg has been struck over the head by a toy Indian tomahawk. Although I was too young to witness this incident,I loved the way Meg, with a smile, tells the story of what happened many decades before. She gently pulled back her bangs to reveal a scar in her forehead from the legendary Indian battle. This is the person Meg was endearing ,forgiving, and loving.

by Ken Rieth (cousin)

I first met Meg at a family wedding in Cape May, New Jersey. As we exchanged pleasantries, her inviting smile and warm demeanor immediately made me feel at ease. Upon learning I lived a few miles outside of Washington, D.C., she recounts a story of her visit to the Phillips Gallery.

Meg confessed that, art had never really captured her interest. However, during a visit to the Phillips Gallery in Dupont Circle, Washington, D.C., she discovered Renoir’s Luncheon of the Boating Party. As Meg described it, the painting seemed to exert an irresistible pull on her, drawing her towards it with a magnetic force. She walked, or perhaps even floated, towards it in slow motion, the surrounding people and noise fading away until she was standing in front of the masterpiece. The colors, the setting, the joy of the scene - it all resonated with her in a way she had never before experienced.

Meg's story had a profound impact on me, and I found myself marveling at the power of art to move us in unexpected ways. Later that day, at the wedding reception, Meg and Jo welcomed me into their family with open arms. As a Southern girl in unfamiliar territory, I felt grateful for their warmth and hospitality. Looking back, I regret not having more opportunities to spend time with Meg, who was truly a beautiful soul and story teller. Whenever I see Renoir's Luncheon of the Boating Party, I am reminded of her and the special memories we shared that day in Cape May.

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Raised by 4 people
Just thinking of Meg brings a huge smile to my face.  I met Meg 35 years ago as a Coolidge parent and neighbor.  Volunteering in the Media Center not only brought such joy to each of my children, but I loved working alongside Meg, talking and sharing.  My children and I have fond memories of her haunted house on Halloween and her love of birds were shared with all the children she worked with.  To her family we hope you know that all these years later, she is remembered with fondness, joy, and love.
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Dear Friends,
I am so sorry I will be missing this fabulous celebration of Marvelous Meg! Unfortunately I fell out of my attic and broke my hip and am in a rehab facility. I don’t know if I’ll be released by then- I’m still increasing my stamina using a Walker and not able to do steps or use a four prong cane! I don’t know if anyone is coming from the Philadelphia area to bring me!
Meg was an amazing woman! She used to video tape my students’ well projects and Coach them to make them better! Her zany sense of humor added life to Coolidge School! I have the photos and the script she wrote when she dressed me up as Wonder Woman for Tom Barnes retirement dinner! Do you hear that change jingling in his pocket? I’m sorry I’m not home to send you those photos- hilarious! I was fortunate to have a part in the Halloween craziness- I got to jump out of a closet and scare people!
But the best memories I have are of the amazing Ky Derby parties in which she included my mom, who was born in Ky!
Wow! They were professional! It was exciting to think of what we would bring each year! One year Mom made a chocolate track with chocolate horses that stood on it! And one year we brought life size George and Barbara Bush! Meg always had a witty retort to any comment- she was so quick!!!
It was always exciting to see who would be the big winner! Selig or Sue Liotard. That day was always one of my most favorite days of the year! Because my mom used to lead us in singing My Old Ky Home- she had us sing it at her grave at her funeral! Of course, Meg introduced me to so many fabulous books- Miss Rumphius, is still a favorite! Meg moved life, people, fun, and books! Anything she did , she did all the way and then some!! What a joy to have had her in my life!!!
❤️🗽Paulette Steffa’s
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Bringing in 1990 at a masquer…
1990, Wyckoff, NJ, USA
Bringing in 1990 at a masquerade party thrown by Meg & Rich
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I remember Meg as a lovely lady who often came into our shop, the Wild Bird Marketplace in Midland Park. We’ve long sold that business, but we recall how pleasant she and Rich were. She was also related to my West Point friend and classmate, the late Bruce Shroyer. 
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Together again
Together again
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Mr. and Mrs! They lived life …
1966, Oakwood, Ohio, USA
Mr. and Mrs! They lived life to the fullest!
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Meg did everything so well ! …
Meg did everything so well ! On this day, Meg, Rich. and I went snowshoeing in Vermont. She timed it perfectly! As we were returning back to "Pa's Place", we stopped to admire the sun setting over Killington and Okemo. That's when Meg took out of her backpack a bottle of wine and three plastic wineglasses!
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When Rich's mother, Amanda Do…
When Rich's mother, Amanda Dougher could no longer live alone in Cleveland, she came to live with Meg, Rich and Beth.
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Tom, Marge, Jo and Meg - I lo…
Tom, Marge, Jo and Meg - I love and miss them all!
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