John, Peter, Andy, Tim,

It was with deep sadness I learned of Joy’s passing. During my time in Port Gentil the 6 of you became my extended family. I have many fond memories of meals in your home,  days at the beach, English language worship services, games with the kids. Joy will forever be embedded in my mind as the 9/10/11 year old with a bright smile, infectious laugh, sweet spirit. She’s the Joy shown in the photo taken at Bongolo with the Thompsons and Corbys. That picture took me back to happy times in Gabon. 

From comments, I see Joy stayed true to herself, loved others, brought happiness to others, served others throughout her career. It was a life well lived. 

Blessed to have had the Joy, Joy, Joy (where?) Down in my Heart

Kind and witty,

delivering perfect punchlines and sassy sarcasm when needed most.

Funny, loving,

her beautiful, infectious hearty laugh would pour from her office,

invariably eliciting my smile across the corridor.

Gifted painter, sketcher, and word connoisseur,

a gentle, thoughtful communicator.

Mentor and friend, protector and motivator,

generous, helpful, dependable.

Cheered on others, unconditionally uplifting, nonjudgmental, present and supportive,

adventurous spirit, amusing, and totally adored.

Reserved, practical, low-key, humble,

amazingly dedicated nurse who’d sit quietly with patients,

holding their hands, providing safety, encouragement, and assurance.

I’ll miss being one of your ‘elephants’, our water cooler conversations about

A Million Little Things, Abbott Elementary and The Bear,

and score-keeping the huggers, high-fivers and fist-pumpers.

A quiet void fills our support group where you have been most impactful,

the calm to their storms --connecting with each woman – you spoke to their soul.

Beamed with pride to have the fulfilling role of best auntie – playful, inspirational, their go-to.

Rest peacefully knowing you secured an irreplaceable, deep, special bond to your beloved kin.

You followed your own path, Joy,

leaving an exemplary, undeniable legacy for the God-fearing life you led of

forgiveness, love and service. 

Miss you dearly, Jennifer--