Hi Lisa-Lu, Skye, Sloan & Jack
I just wanted to share a few words and memories about Justin.
I first met Justin through Rex at Rotary, and right away, I could tell he was someone special. He always had a joke ready and this big, genuine smile that made you feel like you were exactly where you were supposed to be. He was one of those people who had this easy, welcoming energy—no pretense, just kindness, warmth, and humor.
As my boys, Michael and Jonathan, went through St. Rose School, I got to know Lisa-Lu and Justin even more through mutual friends, get-togethers, and parties. Over time, they became part of that circle of people you just love doing life with.
One memory that really sticks with me was Karyn Blaney’s 50th birthday party. We were in the back of the Pickford house, just hanging out. Justin and I sat and talked for a long time—laughing, sharing stories, having a drink or two. Later that night, we were all singing karaoke—Justin and Lisa included—and it was just one of those nights you never forget. Justin had this way of bringing so much joy and fun into a room. He lived fully. You could feel it.
But beyond the laughs and good times, what I’ll always remember most is how kind and gentle Justin was. He was never judgmental. He was the kind of friend who made you feel safe to be yourself. And that’s rare. He was a role model—not just to his kids, but to all of us who got to know him.
My boys grew up alongside Skye and Sloan. Whether we were at the beach or a family event, the kids always clicked. There was this easy, natural friendship between them, just like there was between all of us.
Justin will be deeply missed—by his friends, by this community, but most of all by his beautiful family.
Lisa-Lu, Skye, Sloan, and Jack—my heart is with you. My prayers are with you every single day. When you’re ready, I want you to know I’m here for anything you need—a talk, a meal, a phone call, anything. I’ll reach out when it feels right, but please know, you can always reach out to me too.
It breaks my heart that I can’t be at Justin’s celebration of life because it’s the same day and time as my wedding. I was so disappointed to realize I couldn’t be there in person. But I want you to know: my heart is there. My thoughts and my love are with all of you.
Justin was one of a kind. And he will never be forgotten.❤️
Love,
Kristen Baxstresser