Dear Donald,
This is a tough one. You left us too early.
I hadn’t seen you for some time, but the last time we spoke you told me about your spiritual awakening, how you had joined a church and been baptized. You were excited that we shared the same faith, and you mentioned that you remembered when I gave you a Bible many years ago. That conversation stayed with me.
I remember the first time I met you. We must have been in third grade — you were probably nine and I was eight. You had just moved into a house a block away from ours, on Calle Salta. You had a black eye — a horse had kicked you, or something like that. We became best friends immediately, riding our bicycles all over Olivos.
We shared many summers during our childhood. When we were around ten or twelve, you used to spend January with us at my parents’ farm in Córdoba, La Candelaria. We would pretend to be cowboys, riding calves and lambs, imagining ourselves as rodeo riders.
One of our last great adventures from that time was when we decided we wanted to have falcons to hunt with. We quickly realized there were no falcons in Córdoba, so hawks became our best alternative. We spent about a week climbing trees and peering into nests, trying to find baby hawks. In the end, we settled for a pair of baby chimangos, which we brought back to Buenos Aires by train. I believe that was our last train ride from the farm, as regular passenger service ended soon after.
Needless to say, the chimangos never became falcons. The adventure ended with a short funeral service for our baby chimangos in my parents’ backyard. For some reason, we had a wonderful time sharing that experience, and for many years we both remembered it fondly.
Another time, we went to your grandmother’s house in Córdoba — I believe it was in Nono. We drove there with your parents and brought Tom, your dachshund, who farted all the way to Córdoba. I remember your father, Hugh, shouting, “¡Otra vez, Tom!” and us all laughing. I suspect some of us may have taken turns blaming Tom…
I also remember when our school became co-ed in sixth grade. We were talking about these new classmates called “girls” and realized we were both fond of the same one. We decided to fight to see who would get the first chance to chase her during poliladrón at school the next day. Since you were about a head taller than I was, the fight didn’t last long. You got the girl, and I had to choose another crush.
I have such fond memories of our childhood together, and I will always treasure them.
Un abrazo grande a los McIntyre — Hugh, Sonia y Mónica — my second family when we all lived in Olivos. I remember you with great affection. Otra abrazo a Donny, Nico, María y Pato.
Un abrazo,
Robert Murchison