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Don Gay

Arlington, VA
May 2, 1968 - July 3, 2025
May 2, 1968 - Jul 3, 2025
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Madison and Uncle Donny
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Our heartfelt prayers and condolences to Amelia and her family. 
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2007, Norwood, MA, USA
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2007, Norwood, MA, USA
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Dear Amelia, Clive, Charlie and Claire, and The Gay family

Our hearts are with you at this sorrowful time. We loved Don right away when he came to Mortgage Max as a co-op student from Northeastern.  As a young man, his intelligence, confidence and humor were always evident. We have enjoyed watching your family grow and send all our love as we all mourn this wonderful husband, father and friend.  Joyce and Hank Coleman

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Sending all of the love to the Gay family during this extremely difficult time. You are in my thoughts.  Love you all. - Emily McManus
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Memories of my cousin Don.
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Catch 54 - Don and Taylor
Fenwick Island, DE, USA
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2024, Arlington, VA, USA
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2024, Fenwick Island, DE, USA
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Landon’s Baptism with his Unc…
2023, Nashville, TN, USA
Landon’s Baptism with his Uncle Don Gay and Godfather
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Amelia - 

I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of Don. My heart breaks for you and your family. Please know you’re in my thoughts during this incredibly difficult time. Wishing you strength and comfort as you navigate the days ahead.

With deepest sympathy,

Susan Shuckra

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1974, West Roxbury, Boston, MA, USA
I love my baby brother — with Christopher Gay and Our mom
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 Dear Joan: May all your wonderful memories help to sustain you during this difficult time I know Donald is smiling down at you and your family may you find strength comfort and peace his love will be forever in your heart 
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So incredibly sorry to hear of the passing of Donny. I have so many great memories of hanging with him back in the old days of the Salman & Vogel St neighborhood. He was the kindest soul. My heartfelt condolences go out to his family & friends. Such a loss! 
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