I am so deeply sorry Amanda. No words can adequately convey the comfort and strength I wish for you. I can only offer this with absolute certainty: Your father loves you more than anything, and his pride and love for you is infinite and eternal. No doubt.100%. Unconditionally.
And to Kristin, Jeannie and family, I am blessed to have had Bill in my life. He was an extraordinary and accomplished person, and a loyal and cherished friend. His untimely passing has shattered my heart. I am truly sorry for your loss.
I have few proverbial “best friends”. Bill was one. We met professionally over 25 years ago at OCAPA and immediately hit it off and never looked back. We had a lot in common, but what ultimately bonded us so firmly was our passion for fishing. We shared over 20 years fishing together in Astoria every August for weeks at a time. We would stay at a rental and spend days on end frantically chasing salmon and catching up. Upon reflection, I think we spent close to 2000 hours together on a boat, confined to maybe 60 square feet of usable space, chasing salmon with a fierce intensity few understood. I believe you really have to have an enduring mutual love and appreciation for each other to do that year after year. It was a commitment that we highly valued. Even my daughter’s wedding was thoughtfully scheduled to accommodate our fishing.
We were a great team. We had fished so long together that we often anticipated each other’s thoughts, words and movements. Those that fished with us I am quite sure experienced a variety of sentiments: laughter, bewilderment, chaos, confusion, fear, exhaustion, frustration, boredom, and, with any luck, an intense surge of adrenaline and exhilaration. Often, all in one day. Many questioned why we couldn’t/wouldn’t stop until we had our limit or exhausted our options. I think a few related, some understood, and others simply tolerated. Some never fished with us again. But Bill and I pushed on year after year. We would always give each other a hug and say “love ya” when we finished. Bummed when it was over, but excited for the following year. I will hold those memories very, very close and dear to my heart, forever.
Regrettably, Bill and I did not fish together this past August for the first time in all those years. There is a difficult life lesson in that reality. One that I will take to heart.
I love ya’ Bill! I miss you. Rest in peace my friend. Hold a spot for me on the boat when we meet again.
Jeff Wriston