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Personal note from Vivian's Family
Obituary
Vivian J. Trethewey (née Golos)
(September 11, 1926 – February 7, 2026)
We mourn the loss of Vivian J. Trethewey, a devoted community leader and cherished family matriarch of Abbotsford. After a remarkable century, Vivian passed away peacefully on February 7, 2026, in Abbotsford, BC.
Born a twin beside her brother Ivan in the historic village of Clayburn, Vivian grew up in the Fraser Valley with a strong sense of place, work ethic, and generosity …
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In honor of a life so beautifully lived, a celebration will be held for Vivian at a place always filled with love and laughter. Please join us on February 28, 2026, between 1:00 PM and 4:00 PM to share stories and raise a glass to her memory. This will be followed by a private gathering for immediate family.
Please RSVP to viviantretheweymemorial@gmail.com, and you may also send your sentiments to the same address for the family. The family will confirm receipt of your RSVP and share further details about the event location and program.
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Cause of death
Stroke
Method of disposition
Cremation
Final resting place