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Personal note from Vivian's Family

With heavy hearts, we honor the life and love of our dear Nanny, who touched so many of us with her warmth, kindness, and steady presence.

Event details can be found int the "Events & RSVP" section of this memorial site.

We deeply value each connection, but the event cannot be adjusted to accommodate schedule conflicts. We appreciate your understanding.

More information will be available on this website. Please check back over the coming days for added details and updates. If you would like to submit a message for display, please email your sentiments to the family at viviantretheweymemorial@gmail…

Obituary

Vivian J. Trethewey (née Golos)

(September 11, 1926 – February 7, 2026)

We mourn the loss of Vivian J. Trethewey, a devoted community leader and cherished family matriarch of Abbotsford. After a remarkable century, Vivian passed away peacefully on February 7, 2026, in Abbotsford, BC.

Born a twin beside her brother Ivan in the historic village of Clayburn, Vivian grew up in the Fraser Valley with a strong sense of place, work ethic, and generosity …

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In honor of a life so beautifully lived, a celebration will be held for Vivian at a place always filled with love and laughter. Please join us on February 28, 2026, between 1:00 PM and 4:00 PM to share stories and raise a glass to her memory. This will be followed by a private gathering for immediate family. Please RSVP to viviantretheweymemorial@gmail.com, and you may also send your sentiments to the same address for the family. The family will confirm receipt of your RSVP and share further details about the event location and program.

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Born

September 11th, 1926
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Passed away

February 7th, 2026
Abbotsford, BC, Canada

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Cause of death

Stroke

Method of disposition

Cremation

Final resting place

Ashes scattered

Vicarro Ranch

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