My heart broke five years ago today, but Tom is still with me in my thoughts, dreams, and memories.
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My heart broke on this day five years ago, but Tom is still with me in my thoughts, dreams, and memories.
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Just came across this by virtue of the internet. So very sorry that I didn't know that Tom and Janet had relocated to MN, where my business was HQd. Could have caught up with Tom. A precious opportunity missed.So many great memories shared at Alemany and beyond. Performing together, making sure to drop off presents at Christmas so that I could be "invited" to share the Dantonas' holiday Italian feast... A smile and a tear for you, my friend. It appears that you had a life lived well.
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My condolences to Janet, Desiree & Cheyenne and extended family. I worked closely with Tom for over a year. We became good friends. Their children are close in age to ours and had met a few times. Tom did computer work for me occasionally, and I did the inspection on their house in St. Peter. I'm not sure why his spirit came to me today, but it did. I remember him well. He was passionate about many things but foremost his family and his integrity. My deepest sympathy to Janet, a woman of great strength, wisdom, and beauty. May your family be forever blessed with his memory.
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Tom, We missed an opportunity to meet up. You were driving up near me & we were going to meet up near Bellingham, Wa. Your company called & re-routed you. We never did get to meet up. Miss you Tom. ♥️
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I miss Tom’s stories about his travels and his aspirations. He was a good friend to all who knew him. I think of Tom often.
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On this anniversary date, a broken heart is healed with the memory of his laughter, and his ability to make all around him laugh - no matter what tension there was in the world, or the room. I encourage all who knew and loved him to focus on that. The child in him that never died was ever curious of this world and the worlds beyond, ever loving of his family and friends, and ever effective of finding of ways to surprise us all with just the right comic comment, face, or noise to remind us that we are all human, fragile and flawed, but important and deserving of laughter and love, nonetheless. Peace, love, and much laughter to you all.
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Tom is in my heart and my mind's eye every day.
I am with my brother who is a little toddler excited when Santa shows up on Christmas eve or when he is in grammar school and bringing home the little lost dog he found in our old neighborhood. I still enjoy seeing him in a play or when he is celebrating at my wedding and I am celebrating at his. I drop in to see him in Steamboat Springs. He is sitting with me in Wrigley Field at a Cub game too. He surprises me one night at a San Francisco music event. On any given day, I am with him and his family at the Mall of America or in Chicago enjoying having a terrific dinner with him and telling funny stories until the early hours of the next morning. Of course, any time I sit down at my computer or drive alongside a big rig, I am absolutely certain he is there with me.
Tom shared goodness and love so many people. I am luckier than most because he will always be my brother.
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Thinking of you today, Janet. So much has changed these past three years.
Love, Barbara Beaver-Cavaleri
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