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I remember interviewing Tanvi to work at ICF and I got to know her well working long hours and many weeks a year together on a project in Las Vegas. We stayed in touch long distance through various moves and life changes, occasionally staying with each other and going out together in DC or in LA. She would always laugh at my wisecracks, whether they deserved a laugh or not. Discovering a new restaurant was the best with Tanvi: " we'll take one of these, one of these, one of these..." and so on until we were trying about half of the menu.

Tanvi walked in the world with open arms and wide eyes and that inspired me. She had a rare and beautiful combination of sass and intelligence along with kindness, empathy, and warmth, and she lit up a room. I've never met anyone like Tanvi and I don't think I ever will again. I miss her so much already.  If little Zaeya has even half of her mother's spirit and spark, then watch out world!!

Goofing off for the camera at…
2018, SUCCOTASH, F Street Northwest, Washington, DC, USA
Goofing off for the camera at one of our many meals out.
Epic camping trip - at a beac…
2003, Oregon, USA
Epic camping trip - at a beach State Park in Oregon. — with Binny Guz
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I met Tanvi at Yoga Class in Sherman Oaks it was easy to connect with her unlike some of the other yogi’s who kept to themselves. The first time we had lunch together we talked for hours. Tanvi had a gift of getting to the deeper parts of your soul- I was in awe of her warmth, genuine interest, and insightfulness; being a psychologist myself, I joked with her and said she had missed her calling. Over time I learned Tanvi had many callings, her knowledge of health, her passion for music, an eye for the finer things in life, the way she juggled a demanding career, her loyal friendships and family life, the zest to travel, she mastered it all. Tanvi had many friends, yet when we visited she made you feel you were it. I felt at home wherever she was; three times Tanvi and Kaiz made their home on Dickens Street, and we joked that Dickens was a long street and they could cover some more. A visit included sipping that awesome Chai she made, talk about the next SRK movie to re-watch, it was special to just “be” with her. She included me in celebrating Diwali, tasting Indian deserts, and was so delighted when my bland palate tasted her flavorful dishes. Tanvi was there in the most nurturing, attentive way for you when you struggled with a loss, a move, or doggie mom worries. I still hear her voice in my head: “Hey G how are you and Sidee (my dog) doing”? Tanvi knew what to say to make you feel you could do this, and imparted her wisdom to hold onto. I was so thrilled when she asked me to knit baby sweaters; Tanvi carefully selected the designs and colors and got Kaiz his input. I was determined to finish them before baby Zaeya arrived and Tanvi was so excited and filled with love for her baby and growing family.

Tanvi you were a gift to us and this world; an entire community will be needed to keep spreading the wisdom, joy, strength, beauty and passion you encompassed and showered us with. Your laughter, your voice and words will dance in my head and make their home there so I can turn to them anytime I need a bit of Tanvi in my day.

I am another ICF'er who was so blessed to work with Tanvi. It is a struggle to accept that someone who was so vibrant with life and energy has left us so soon. What I will miss most about her - she had an unrelenting drive to deliver her best and bring the best out of others; was always going to make your laugh; an unparalleled work ethic; and knew where she was going and how to get there. She was so incredible to work along side, and her family at ICF will hold on to her memories and the many lessons she has taught us along the way. She has touched so many people and projects that her legacy will truly live on forever. I hope that one day Zaeya will get to walk along the LA River and know just how special her mama was. We will miss you forever Tanvi! -Love, Tanya 
Beautiful Tanvi in DC
2016, The National Cherry Blossom Festival DC, USA
Beautiful Tanvi in DC
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Caryn M
2003, SPEA, Bloomington, IN
Love you, dear Tanvi.
Tanvi ..May Ur soul Rest In Peace ..I will always be thankful to god to have shared a friendship with you back in are jc days together ..the fun times and parties together and of course the endless conversations ..

Tanvi was a shining light... So vibrant and fun.  A tragically short life but one lived to the full. Will always see her laughing in my mind's eye. She will live in spirit through our happy memories.

Heartfelt condolences to all her family and close friends. 

The world is emptier without Tanvi. She was a true force - super smart, quick-witted, confident, and just awesome. I can't believe she is gone from this earth, but the amazing comments shared by many of our ICF colleagues are a testament to her influence and how Tanvi will live on within all of us. I send my deepest condolences to Tanvi's family and everyone who was fortunate enough to cross paths with her. 

Much love, 

Ted 

Tanvi was my colleague at ICF for 15 years.  As we worked together I watched her grow from a junior staffer to a star manager.  She was everything her obituary says she was, and more.   My condolences to her family and all her colleagues.  I will miss you, Tanvi.  May you rest in peace.
Sincere condolences to Kaiz and the family.  Our thoughts and prayers with you and for Tanvi’s peaceful resting.  Will cherish the beautiful memories we have of beautiful, spirited Tanvi. 🙏
I was Tanvi's work colleague for close to 3 years. We were both Managing Directors in the LA office at ICF. Tanvi was a ICF veteran, and was truly a welcoming presence to me when I first joined and often stepped in to '"show me the ropes". It's not easy to step into a new role and Tanvi had my back from day one.  Like many here, I will echo that Tanvi was supremely intelligent, a positive force of nature, and a truly unique personality. She tackled the most difficult of problems with ease.  She had an aura of sunlight but was strong as steel. Tanvi wanted the best of everyone, was a true team player in every sense and wanted others to succeed. I miss you terribly Tanvi and think of you often. I will always carry you with me.  
Tanvi & Kaizad’s baby sho…
2021, Sherman Oaks, Los Angeles, CA, USA
Tanvi & Kaizad’s baby shower. The last time I Seen Tanvi and it was the happiest I’ve ever seen her :) Pregnant and surrounded by loved ones in her home. I will cherish this day forever!

 I was lucky enough to work with Tanvi for just over two years at ICF in Los Angeles.  It was  not the longest amount of time, but we managed to form a relationship, that took the form of mentorship, mothering, acceptance , and ultimately a beautiful friendship. As many have said already, Tanvi was a literal force. Watching her lead a meeting was captivating, and how quick her mind worked and processed information was beyond impressive. She energized me, and helped me learn to come out of my "shell" as a professional. Her fierce tenacity inspired me. I looked up to her. Her intelligence was admirable and truthfully, unmatched by most. I am SO thankful that I was able to call her my supervisor.  I don't think I will ever have a supervisor or colleague as devoted as her. Tanvi's support made me feel invincible and washed away my self-doubt. She supported me in so many ways... from personal matters, giving me advice to career advice.  She believed in me, she rooted for me, even when I decided to leave ICF.  She teased me and told me she'd never let me leave, and I know she really didn't want me to, but she wanted to support me and my desires, above all. 

Tanvi, I promise I won't let you down, I will speak up, ESPECIALLY in rooms that try to make me feel like I don't belong there. I promise to always bring the "positive Char energy" to all of the teams I work on. I promise to never forget anything you taught me. 

I miss you so much, Tanvi. I don't want to believe this reality, the world needs you... we all do. You were so special and unlike any other. I miss her laugh, how gorgeous she made my name sound when she'd say it, and the way she'd dance around in her seat when that Billie Eilish song came on. I'd give anything to hear her say, "OH, CHARLOTTE, CHARLOTTE, CHARLOTTE!" because I was overthinking about something.

I send all of my love, light, and sincerest condolences to Kaizad and Tanvi's family. I am so thankful I was able to meet Tanvi's family, and share such special moments with them at the baby shower. Tanvi's family and friends are beautiful people, just as she was. I am sending all of my love to precious Zaeya, she is absolutely beautiful. I know she will be such a wonderful person because she came from Tanvi. 

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