In the Oxford dictionary beside the words ‘Family Man’ is a picture of my father. Dad took us to see as much of the world as he could when time allowed. We visited every parish in Jamaica and several cities in the UK. With his love of the sea, he taught himself to swim at a young age, and every opportunity to take us to the beach we would go and enjoy ourselves swimming together and sitting around the table eating fried fish, bammy and festival.
Dad loved music; reggae, ska, and dancing. We heard he was the rave when he just went to England- all the ladies at the club wanted to dance with him especially because he learned to be so respectful of women from his mother, Lillian.
As we look through our family photo collection, we were hard-pressed to find a photo of him by himself. In almost every photo he was right there with the love of his life, Dorothy.
Dad could easily win the Father and Husband of the Year award. He was handy in the kitchen, making rice & peas for Sunday dinner, frying up batches of corn beef fitters & conch soup, and making Punch with Dragon Stout.
What started with freshly picked cherries from our backyard, juiced to make a refreshing drink, became Dad’s passion for making delicious smoothies. A smoothie connoisseur of sorts. Anything fruit or vegetable – pumpkin, carrot, spinach, cucumber, mango, banana, sour-sap, beetroot, starfruit, papaya, Ethiopian apple, Breadfruit punch. If it could be juiced, he would make a drink.
Except for the evening hours and Saturday afternoons when he relaxed in his favorite recliner watching westerns, wrestling Dad never sat still. There was always a bill to pay, a friend to assist, family to visit and even shopping at the market. You could count on him to get things done.
His trade as a Carpenter was his hobby and he used it to add an extension to our home and help a lot of people. Remodeled bathrooms, kitchens, extensions on people’s homes, churches, and more, Dad did it all.
Aside from his favorite seat in the house, a reclining sofa, his favorite places to get away and relax are Tapioca Village Retreat in Castleton and RIU Hotel in Runaway Bay
With Love
Patricia, Carlie, Myra & Lorraine