John, I was so sorry to hear about Robyn. I didn't get to know her but from the many stories, she was a bright star in the life of many and had such a loving support from family and friends.
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One of my favorites of us mom!!
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One of my favorites of us mom!!
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I know we haven’t talked too much recently, but man… we are family. Your mom looked out for me all the same. Shoot—she even drove us all the way back to Portales a time or two without a single complaint. Well… maybe one complaint, but it was always followed by that signature smile of hers. She was a wonderful lady with so much love to give.
I still remember how she welcomed me like I was one of her own—no hesitation, no questions, just open arms and a place to belong. She had this incredible way of making everywhere feel like home, whether we were crowding her kitchen or sprinting out the door late for something we definitely should’ve prepared for. She’d just shake her head, pretend to be annoyed, and then tell us to be safe… which we all know meant, “Don’t do anything stupid.”
Losing someone like her doesn’t just hurt—it changes you. That kind of love leaves a mark, and the space she filled is irreplaceable. But I know she lives on so clearly in all of you. I see her in your strength, in your stubbornness (don’t deny it), in the way you love people fully and without hesitation. Those pieces of her are still here, shaping every life you touch.
If love alone could’ve kept her here, she’d still be laughing with us—probably reminding us to call more or to stop acting like we were raised in a barn. And even though I wish more than anything she was still with us, I’m grateful that she left so much of herself behind. I’m better for having known her, and I’ll carry her memory with me always.
I’m holding you all close in my thoughts. I’m here—whether it’s to share a memory, to cry, or to laugh about the times she rolled her eyes at us (though you know she secretly loved it). She was truly one of a kind, and I’m blessed to have been part of her world.
With all my love,
Jarret Lovelace
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I am a good friend of Autumn Tomas, one of Robyn's daughters. I worked briefly with Robyn at the Leather Store where I learned what a kind and generous soul she was. She lived life fully, with love and compassion. She died with courage and surrounded by family. What a huge blessing. She will live on in the hearts of all who cherished her. Peace and Grace to the family and friends.
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Robyn was my cousin and we had a 13 year age difference. Once I became an adult I finally got to know her. I had my first child in 1996. Robyn opened up her home to my new little family for weeks while we got settled. She was the type of person that would welcome you with such kindness. Rest in peace, Robyn.
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Oh Robyn, I remember our first year of college in 1970 and how we were drawn together somehow as roommates. You were the fun, outgoing risk-taker to my introvert self. Though I last saw you in the early 2000s, I always watched your social media and thought of you. Thank you for being in my life and for letting me be Jenny's godmother. Yours in eternity, Claudia
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I will always cherish the times we all spent together on the front porch having discussions & cracking jokes. Robyn & John always welcomed me into their home, loving me & my daughter like one of their own. I will miss your hugs as they had the type of comfort & peace only a true momma bear could provide. Even though you are no longer here physically, I know I won’t have to look very far to find you, as you have woven your beautiful spirit into all of your children & you did a wonderful job raising them all! Thank you especially for raising my best friend, Ananda, who forever changed my life & that started with you! Love you forever momma Robyn!!
My condolences, prayers, big hugs & all my love to the Tomas family!!
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I met Robyn and John in 1980 when John and I started working together at Hilley Elementary in Socorro ISD. They are a truly beautiful family who always put others first.
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John I am so very sorry that Robyn has left this physical world. Her spirit and love lives in you, your children and grandchildren. That powerful energy never dies. God bless and comfort you.
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My heart surrounds the Tomas family today at the loss of Robyn Tomas! She fought the battle, did her best, but the beastly illness that took so much from her, finally won. She will be missed dearly by everyone who loved her . I will miss her laughter, her funny wit, our lively discussions on politics and feminism and her love of animals .
Love
Laura Russ
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I met John and Robyn when their daughter Jenny was diagnosed with cancer. I know how much they loved Jenny and their devotion to her, each other, and to the families who were also going through the cancer diagnosis. I was part of her involvement with the Candlelighter’s program. I know Jenny was waiting to greet her!
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Born to be a mother- with grandma, Jenny, and Autumn
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Jenny Sunshine
and Autumn
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Talking Heads and The Beatles
In response to "What always reminds you of Robyn?"
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I will never forget Robyn’s humor and kindness! I don’t believe she ever met a stranger, as she was incredibly compassionate and cared about everyone! She is going to be deeply missed!
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