Yomi, my dearest friend,
Every time I picked up a pen to write this tribute, I had to put it down. It’s so hard to believe that just a few weeks after the wedding, God took you away. We have been together since our childhood, and now I reflect on the memories of our adventures, laughter, and shared fears. You were more than a friend; you were a sister, a constant source of comfort, wisdom, and strength.
I remember our time in Lagos. Whenever one of us was sent to the other’s house by our parents, we would always escort each other back to ensure we were never alone. Only God knows what we used to talk about, but those conversations were special and endless.
The bond we formed in those early years remained strong forever. The memories of you keep flooding back—the vacations we shared with our children, your loving husband and soulmate Ayo's support of our friendship through all those years. It's so painful that in the last days we couldn't see more of each other and could only talk on the phone. I can still see and hear your lively, bubbly personality. I am grateful that the last memory I have of you is of a beautiful, exuberant you, though weak, but strong in spirit.
The news of your passing was such a shock. I felt an indescribable loss, as if a loving and caring friend was taken from me too soon. You were always my companion in both sorrow and joy, and you will forever hold a place in my heart.
Your life was a testament to the depth of love, friendship, and kindness you gave to so many. You inspired people, even family members, in ways that I am still discovering. Your spirit touched lives in such remote and profound ways. You had a way of encouraging and inspiring others, always helping and believing in the goodness of people. You celebrated others' successes as if they were your own.
You loved all your family members dearly, including your in-laws, speaking of them with such tenderness and pride. You always prayed for them as we conversed, showing your selfless nature.
You were a true evangelist, loving and serving the Lord with all your being. Your faith was unwavering to the end, and it gave you so much strength.
As we bid you farewell, I celebrate your life—your kind heart, laughter, wisdom, loving spirit, and that beacon of light forever shining brightly in our hearts.
May God console and comfort your husband, children, and grandchildren.
Yomi, I love you, but God loves you more and called you to eternal glory.
I find peace in knowing that you are now resting peacefully in eternal joy in the loving arms of our Lord.
You will be forever missed.
Funmi Onileere