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Here's to you Mike!! You were one of a kind! 
Today would have been Mike's 62nd birthday. Story and I have been busy most of today preparing for the snow/sleet that is due to arrive around midnight. Part of our preparations included getting the generator cleaned and running--something Mike did faithfully a couple of times a year-- just in case we lose power. Of course he's been on my mind a lot today for all these reasons. In the midst of our many ups and downs over the last 10 months, the kids and I continue to craft our new "Flinn ecosystem" and work together to solve the challenges that Mike always and naturally took care of around the house and in our lives. We very much love him and miss him.
He helped me a lot to understand modern electronics. Helping me get past a slow down, blockage on my computer, etc.
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I didn't know Michael well because my friendship was mainly with Kate, my beloved friend. Together, Kate and I have logged hundred of miles walking througout our beautiful neighborhood and so had many opportunities to share. I always had a deep sense that their relationship was a genuine partnership based in mutual respect and squarely focused on their family. Since Michael's passing we've had many more walks. In all of these years, Kate never spoke a word of derision about her husband understanding we are all inherently imperfect trying to navigate an imperfect world. In retrospect, one of my regrets is that I didn't make more time to know him. Without a doubt, my life would have been better for it.
Mike will truly be missed.  He was peerless as a Key Grip and lovely presence on set.  
Butterfly Bush rig
Butterfly Bush rig
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This rig had all of Mike’s fa…
2020, BES Studios, Old Osborne Turnpike, Henrico, VA, USA
This rig had all of Mike’s favorite things! A big ass riser, Mayberry heads, 5/8 rod, daisy chains, mini cardellinis, locking carabiners, etc. Kevin and I were happy to feed him carefully procured parts and pieces that were always in the exact same pouch/case/pocket/tool bag every time. I consider myself very fortunate to have worked with a true craftsman. I just accepted that Mike was one of those people that could’ve done anything, really anything he wanted to as a profession. Seriously, can you think of anything Mike couldn’t have mastered given a year or two? Selfishly, I’m happy that he chose the production industry. He was a good teacher and generous with his knowledge. It was a great accomplishment for me when Mike stopped saying “bless your heart” to me, well less frequently anyway hahaha! It’s a business that attracts the most wonderful and brilliant misfits, with Mike being the most brilliant of them all. I hope that he knew that I loved him or at least thought I cared about him. Most importantly I hope he knew that I truly respected him as a human being, as a husband, a father, and of course the best Grip available… period.
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One of the YouTube channels M…
One of the YouTube channels Mike visited was Steve MRE. This was his catchphrase (with "cake" added by us :-)
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If anyone has any pictures of Mike from Legacy and/or The Contender they could share that would be greatly appreciated :-)

Kate

Michael singing Happy Birthday from afar to his son Story, from either Genoa or Barcelona in 2016  
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Mike was more than happy to p…
2019, Hull Street, Richmond, VA, USA
Mike was more than happy to push this young steadicam operator around on the pee wee. If you look at his face he’s obviously struggling to hold back the jokes and puns that were coming to him. Man, I wish I’d written them all down once we wrapped.
The fastest dolly grip in the…
2020, Audi Field, Potomac Avenue Southwest, Washington, DC, USA
The fastest dolly grip in the east
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Angela Ratliff
1994, Tazewell County, VA, USA
I met Michael on the set of my first movie "Lassie"  back in 1994.   My first impression of Michael was friendly , funny, and smart.    I would see Michael through the years on set- he was very hard working , professional,  and had a good sense of humor.   I am determined to one day share a picture of us at the wrap party on "Lassie"  when we were young when I find it.
Mike taught me so much, from intricate technical grip skills and tools, to how to keep an even keel and a lighthearted focus under mounting pressure when the rest of the world was spinning. I’ve always marveled at how he seemed so relaxed while at the same time always calculating the next move, infinitely prepared, ready to spring into action at less than a moment’s notice. He was always looking out for everyone, even me, when I was just a kid on set. I’m grateful for the respect and kindness he gave me. His calm presence and expert technical mastery of his craft was an inspiration to witness and work alongside. He taught me, directly and indirectly, to always slow down and focus on my work with consideration for others—that the most important thing on any job is the safety and well being of everyone there. I will always keep close the composure and sensitivity that I learned through working with him, and I will make sure to do my best to pass it on, just as he did to me.
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2025, Amelia Court House, VA, USA
Funeral service sunshine
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The first time I met Mike he was building a platform off a porch to run dolly track. He seemed like he wasn’t having a great day, and he declined the offer of help. I later found out he was in a tiff with another crew member about another job. The next time I worked with him, I saw him apologizing to the other person for being a jerk. I learned two things from Mike that day- the film industry is different from most because we respect each other and own our behavior and mistakes. The other thing I saw was that he was a meticulous craftsman and I wanted to learn more from him.

Learn I did...proper use of a C stand, creative problem solving and thinking outside the box, having fun at work, the importance of doing things right the first time, how far away lightning was, that joke about set safety...

I only got to work with him for about 5 years while I lived in Richmond, but we literally traveled the world together and created so many fun, nerdy, impressive, hilarious memories. Always quick with a quip and a solution, he set a high bar that will live on in all of us.

"And a very good day!" Miss ya Mike...

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