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Girlguiding Edinburgh camp in…
2005, Kherson, Kherson Oblast, Ukraine
Girlguiding Edinburgh camp in Ukraine
Girlguiding Edinburgh camp in…
2005, Kherson, Kherson Oblast, Ukraine
Girlguiding Edinburgh camp in Ukraine — with Mel Selby, Sue Jackson, Mairi McCulloch
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Never Met Mel but I got to know , admired and loved her through  my Sister who described her as a sweet and ever happy soul❤️ it's sad that life denied me the opportunity to meet her but know that she is watching us from heaven as we celebrate her and her legacy will live forever ❤️❤️ Rest in peace My Sister ❤️
Sussex West trainers being pr…
2021, Fontwell Park, Fontwell Avenue, Arundel, UK
Sussex West trainers being presented with the Penny Hardwick team award
Sussex West Girlguiding
2015, The Cenotaph, Whitehall, London, UK
Sussex West Girlguiding

I didn't know Mel for long but in the short time I knew her, I immediately knew she was one of the most special people I would ever come across in WAGGGS. I joined WAGGGS in 2021, she was the Leadership Practice Lead volunteer and I was her staff partner in leading the efforts to mainstream the Leadership Model throughout the work of the Global team and Member Organisations.

Mel was absolutely instrumental in making me feel immediately at home in WAGGGS, despite me not having been a guide or WAGGGS volunteer prior to joining. She had a wealth of knowledge across many fields which she shared generously (local to national to international practices in guiding, intercultural perspective, shared leadership, training and facilitation, etc..). She was so passionate about our mission of empowering girls to live to their fullest potential, and always caring and attentive to the needs and wants of the volunteers under her guidance. She was so, so, so capable and committed, able to think broadly and strategically but also with a keen eye for detail and nuance. But perhaps most impressively, she was a real joy to be in a team with: empathetic, understanding, transparent, positive and immensely fun! I always looked forward to our weekly check-ins.

She was a true example of a leader, an inspiration and someone I will always look up to (even though she would never want to be seen as anything but an equal partner!). I could go on for ages about how lucky I was (we all were) to have her cross our paths even if just for a brief window in time. She was truly one of a kind, left an immense mark in the world and will be dearly missed in our hearts.

I will forever cherish the memories of many fun moments planning and dreaming big online and a few in-person ones too, including a beaming Mel watching over the great dance moves of Ned and Barney at our wedding's dancefloor!

WAGGGS representation at Ines…
2022, Portugal
WAGGGS representation at Ines' wedding — with Elsa Cardona and Inês Moreira
Presenting Rising Star Awards…
2022, Sussex West County Youth Awards - Worthing
Presenting Rising Star Awards was one of her favourite
Mel’s sense of fun and involv…
2022, Sussex West County Youth Awards - Worthing
Mel’s sense of fun and involvement of everyone shone through everywhere she went - she challenged the Rainbows to see how many of them were as tall as the county standard
I was incredibly lucky to hav…
2020, TAC Foxlease - residential training weekend
I was incredibly lucky to have Mel as a fellow trainer who believed in me and asked me to be part of the training team for what turned out to be the last residential training before covid hit! I was so proud to have gained my TQ Module 5 under Mel’s guidance. Her training displays and attention to detail were second to none. — with Kirstin Bosley and Pippa Lewty
Afternoon tea, a true favouri…
2019, Tea shop en route to Trainers Conference
Afternoon tea, a true favourite as a county trainer — with Kirstin Bosley, Rosemary Rosemary Rodriguez, Angela Purser and Carol Pateman
Part of the county team organ…
2017, Paultons Park - Girlguiding Sussex West County 30 years of Rainbows
Part of the county team organising and marshalling team, trying to keep the rain off

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Mrs. Melanie Ford (MBE)