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Mary Murrin Painter of Bonita Springs, FL, passed away on Sunday October 6. Born Mary Carol Murrin on December 19, 1949 in Charleston, West Virginia, she was an avid equestrian, swimmer, artist, writer, designer of hats and furniture, and a lifelong golfer.

Mary graduated from Charleston Catholic High School in 1967 and later as an Art Major in 1971 from Mary Baldwin College. She went on to marry Jamie Painter and lived at their home, "Wildside Farm" in Virginia until 2009. At "Wildside", Mary was the owner and operator of Virginia Natives Nursery, where she poured her heart and soul into all living things - plants, dogs, cats, horses, and of course, her children. Mary was also the founder of the Virginia Wildflower Preservation Society, later named the Virginia Native Plant Society, in 1982. She was president and board member of VNPS for several years and was honored at the White House by First Lady Barbara Bush as a Washington Metropolitan Area - Volunteer of the Year. Mary was also Director and long-standing Steering Committee member of the widely-acclaimed Conference on Landscaping with Native Plants, held annually at Western Carolina University in Cullowhee, NC. She was also honored by Mary Baldwin College in 1991 with a Career Achievement Award and later the Sesquicentennial Medallion in 1992.

Mary is survived by her love and partner of many years, Dr. John Allen Mayo; her son Andrew Wylie Painter, his wife Meagan and grand-daughter Claire of Petaluma, CA.; her son James Thomas Painter of Warrenton, VA.; her brother John Bernard Murrin of Medina, OH.; sister Anne Murrin Scott of Gatlinburg, TN.; nieces Diana Murrin Simms, Elizabeth Murrin Gong, Elizabeth Lynn Murrin Barnes, Amanda Leigh Scott, nephews Jeffrey B. Murrin, & David Murrin and many cousins. She was predeceased by her parents and three brothers – Julian Michael Murrin of Mt. Pleasant, SC.; William Robert Murrin of Charleston, WV.; and Smith Daniel Murrin of Elmira, NY.

Mary will be remembered for her laugh and quick wit, dedication to things she believed in, and devotion to her passions. Her legacy lives on through those who voice the message of conservation of our native plants and habitats. Many were graced by her written words in her beautiful handwriting.

In lieu of flowers, donations to the Virginia Native Plant Society would be gratefully accepted - c/o VNPS, 400 Blandy Farm Lane Unit #2, Boyce, VA 22620.

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She quickly became a friend and I helped her with her Virginia Naitive plants! She was one of a kind 💗
We miss my dear Sister every day. Rest in Peace Dearest SISTER.
Anne Murrin Scott

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