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Had the privilege of getting to know Mary this last year!  I feel blessed to have known her!  God bless ❤️
Mary was the first friend I made in graduate school at Hazelden. We were table mates, drawn together as our spirits recognized each other. Mary’s husband, Dougie, is an angel among men. I so enjoyed listening and watching Mary gush about her love and affection for Dougie. When I fell in love with a graduate school classmate (Elias), Mary and Dougie were my mentors in relationship. Mary is also an adventurous woman, and I so enjoyed listening to her share about her solo trip to Greece. She followed her dream. She did her best living with ASL. I am so sorry to lose her so young. Be well in peace, my friend.💕
Deepest Condolences to Matt and his family.
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We loved Mary so very much. She was an inspiration to us all. Her wisdom and kindness was shown to us all throughout her entire life. The entire Wallace family and their descendants are proof positive of the wonderful people Jack and Clary were. Our dear, dear Katie was so very proud of them and her siblings, their “other” halves and, of course, all the dear little ones that followed. We pray that our Lord keeps you all in His care and grants you peace.
“The Lord will wipe away the tears from all faces.” Isaiah 25:8
All our Love and sympathies to Dougie, Matt & Nikki, Ann, Tom & Regina, Kaitlin & Hubby and sweet baby girl, Mary Jo, and all the nieces and nephews and their families.
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Our love and prayers are with Doug, Matt, Nikki and families as well as Mar'ys family and her extended cousins.  Mary was a friend for 54 years and loved by all of us who referred to ourselves as the Rochester 8. This included: Diane (Mitchell) Baack, Tracee (Witzel) Eucken, Kathy (Jensen) Graf, Elaine (Larson) Stukel. Amy (Merrill) Moritz, Katie Wallace (Mary's Sister), Mary (Wallace) Ohotto and myself, Donna (Scherff) Bastman. We maintained this relationship for 54 years and are very proud of that. We will all miss Mary in so many ways. She was the most wonderful, loving and courageous friend. You know you were much loved by all of us, Mary. RIP, our friend!
She had a special way of connecting with everyone she knew.  I’ll never forget her and Jude sharing their paranormal experiences at the cabin. I didn’t sleep well for days!   She will be missed. 
My sincerest condolences to you, Doug, her siblings, children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Mary was a wonderful friend and colleague who touched many lives not only by virtue of her skills but also her wisdom, laughter, kindness and love. I’m glad she’s no longer suffering but am sad that she is gone. May she Rest In Peace and may you find some measure of solace in the many memories you shared with one another.
Sending my deepest condolences to close family and friends of Mary. She was a very sweet person and will be missed. You are in my thoughts and prayers. 

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