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Mary Ellen Deemer

Napa, CA
January 15, 1991 - December 12, 2021
Jan 15, 1991 - Dec 12, 2021
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I love you, you are all in my thoughts and prayers at this time. Love, Charish
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Chowin' down on some giant Reese's with mom on Christmas.
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There are few that have walked this earth as genuine as Mary. She was filled with a magnetic and contagious energy. Mary opened her heart with unfiltered love. The person that wanted a list of her friends birthdays as her birthday present. The one that hits you up out of the blue to chime in and brighten your day. Just to catch up, and let you know you they care. No, I don't believe there was ever another quite like you. I am so blessed to have known you in this life.
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I met Mary in high school and always enjoyed her kind presence. She was a very sweet and selfless person, and will be forever missed by so many. I am so sorry for your loss.
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Mary, I will never forget you, you were a wonderful person to be around we had a lot of fun working together you was the best assistant Manager anyone can ask for. We work side by side for 4 years at Security Storage in Napa. You brough so much creativity here at Security Storage we all will miss you dearly. 
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Our condolences for your loss.
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My heart is with her family and friends. (((hug)))
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Mary always had a big heart for everyone, even for those who were in her life for a few moments… if you knew her, you were in her circle… no if’s or buts…
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My whole heart aches to see you again Mary. Until we meet again in Valhalla. 
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An absolute shocking revelation. Mary, you are forever in our hearts. I’ll miss you reading at my work while you enjoy a drink. Rest In Peace beautiful. 
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