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Mary Ellen Deemer

Napa, CA
January 15, 1991 - December 12, 2021
Jan 15, 1991 - Dec 12, 2021
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Christmas at my home ❤
2008, Marina Vista Apartments, Marina Drive, Napa, CA, USA
Christmas at my home ❤ — with Alexander Brooks and Leif Wever
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Friendsgiving party at Mary’s…
2012, Napa, CA, USA
Friendsgiving party at Mary’s :) one of the best memories I have. Holidays at Mary was always a comfort when visiting Napa. She was the most beautiful and kindest person to grace this earth not to mention, a total badass. The woman with the quickest comebacks that could make anyone put a tail between their legs. Mary Mary, you were my sister from another mister.
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And to all of her friends you are all always welcome in her home!!   
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to all who came, shared and gave in any way, bless you everyone!  Mary was there for so many and it didn't matter what or where they came from - they needed something  and she gave it!!!!  All who met her realized that.  One of a kind.  Never to be forgotten.  Thank you all- Her very proud  Mom appreciates you all.  
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The 27th was one of the most …
The 27th was one of the most emotional days of my life and hardest goodbyes. My heart was so full of emotion I couldn't even find the words to speak at the podium. That being said, there really are no words to describe what you mean to me Mary. You are my best friend, my confidant and family. I love and miss you more then words can describe. It brought so much warmth to my heart to hear the kind words and stories from others and I will forever be honored to have been blessed to be a part of your incredible life and family. Rest easy my dear and know your mark has been left and will forever live on in the people that you've touched. Forever and always
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