Tribute Aunty Regina Che

*Aunty Regina Che: The Woman Who Impacted My Life in Many Ways!*

Aunty, saying your sudden demise was shocking is an understatement! I am still trying to make sense of this tragedy! I lack words to express my grief! I am devastated!

You were like a mother to me and impacted my life in many ways. Always loving, supportive, kind, joyful and encouraging.

- [ ] You took me to my first EXSSA (EX Saker Students Association) meeting in Bamenda, just a year after I left Saker Baptist College, our Alma mater.

- [ ] You and uncle Amabo Che, after my dad passed away, took my younger sister Nkonghonyor under your wings and became her sponsors. Such a huge act of generosity and kindness.

- [ ] You traveled all the way from Arizona, USA to Cameroon this June to join us celebrate our mom, Mrs. Helen Anyangwe’s 80th birthday in Yaoundé, Cameroon. You were Mami’s walking stick throughout that celebration making sure she was okay.

- [ ] You called always to check and give health advice on Mami & Ejens!

- [ ] You never wanted me to be left behind and always shared your new business ventures with me and encouraged me to get involved. On matters concerning OnPassive, you were constantly sending me information, Zoom meeting reminders and even took my login information to make sure I was involved and not left behind.

- [ ] You and I talked about writing a book together on Diet and Kidney Disease, but unfortunately that never happened!

I say THANK YOU for your impact on my life! And on behalf of my mom and siblings, we say THANK YOU!

I will miss your calls and our long conversations, the last one being just a week before you passed which lasted almost an hour.

RIPP dearest Aunty Regie!

Love you, your daughter,

Dr. Njwen Anyangwe-Ngute

We were in shock when we heard the news of Mama Regina's passing. Grandma, as we called you because you emulated the qualities of a true grandmother. You were gentle, very kind and loving, very caring towards your family, and everyone you came across in your life. You loved God deeply and made sure everyone around you knew about this love of God by the way you lived your life. A true prayer warrior. You were an angel amongst us. Thank you for everything you did for our family. We will dearly miss you Grandma. Rest in heavenly peace until we meet again.  We love you

Mercy, Jimmy and the Kids. 

My beloved Regina, your sudden exit was shocking and unbelievable but God knows why it had to be so. I very much treasure our bond of friendship through out the years together in Saker Baptist College,  where you were a source of inspiration in all my school life's ramifications. This continued in Bafut where we both were wives to Bafut husband's and became "NDALE GIRLS", a group in which all the women are not from Bafut but married to Bafut husband's.

Furthermore, you introduced me in to the Bruno Groening  circle of friends world wide, a group of prayers twice a day for self,  family and friends and other important groups.

So sad that you are no longer here to call and encourage me as usual. "GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN,  FOR EVER IN OUR HEARTS ". Beloved Sister, Comrade and mbanya, sleep well in the bossom of your creator  ADIEU.

Maa Adela Bua Abumbi 

We are all devastated and are still in denial that Mami is leaving us. May her soul rest in peace and May the good Lord grant the entire family the energy, comfort and strength to deal with such a sudden and devastating loss. I learned the importance of prayer, respect, fear of God, sense of family, appreciation of good food and the importance of walking daily as an exercise from Mami amongst many things. RIP.

Fide & Gladys Nkeze

Sometimes in life things happen that makes you want to question God but on second thought these happenings give you a greater insight into the mystery of life. I try to think of what you would advise me to do if your still alive. You never complained or questioned God. You trusted in Him completely and accepted things in a matter of fact way. Right now, I’m having a little problem accepting your sudden departure. On December 14th you were so full of life. As usual we discussed our OnPassive business. What happened a few hours from then is what I cannot comprehend. Then I start to look back and wonder if I ever told you how special you were to me. Did I ever have the chance to tell you how much I love you or what you meant to me? If I didn’t please forgive me for I took our time here on earth for granted .

In June 2006, you asked me to come and see you in your house in Bafut. That day marked the beginning of a very beautiful journey for us. You saw in me what no one else saw and you nurtured it to produce what I am today. You saw the call of God in my life . You became my most loyal friend, my mentor and my sister. Throughout the journey, you never judged or criticized me. You encouraged me at every turn. Prayed with me and prayed for me. My success and welfare was you concern. You thought me how to live a life acceptable to God. 

You taught me to put others first at all times, to take care of the needy. You taught me to lay down my life in total surrender to God. I remember how happy you were when I was called to be a Pastor. You promised to attend my consecration this year and stand with me on that altar. Whatever happens, I know that on that day your Spirit would be with me. My husband cannot stop crying because he was confident that I had someone to take care of me in his absence. Sister, it is hard. Things seem to be falling apart all around me . You were always there to give me hope and confidence. Who do I turn to.? When my husband is in tears who can I turn to? What do I tell him? He wants to know why you’ve not called. Each time I’m on the phone , he asks if I’m talking with you? How do I explain to him that you are not coming back?

I still hear your gentle voice. I still see that smile that makes me know that everything is alright. In my hurt, I want to thank you for loving me just the way I am. I want to thank you for trusting me. I want to thank you for pushing me forward. I see the world through your eyes. You taught me to focus on things of the Kingdom of God rather things here on earth. You led me to a beautiful place . I know now that you were an Angel sent by God to be my destiny helper. When your mission in my life was completely, Our Heavenly Father called you back home. I smile because I know with confidence where you are right now. To Hod be the Glory. Now more than before, I must concentrate on my life with Jesus so as to meet with you in Heaven. You spoke to me about your death but at the time I did not want to listen. You prepared me for what would eventually happen. I only understood when it happened. Sister Regie, you were full of wisdom. Thank you for being part of my life.  I miss you so much but I’m confident that we will meet again never to part again. I live with this Hope. Rest In Peace my mentor. May the Angels sing you to your resting place in Jesus Name

TRIBUTE TO MRS REGINA CHE

I called you Ma Regi and you called me Ma Helen. I loved and cherished that. Your sudden departure gave me reasons to reflect more on the ways of God. God’s ways and thoughts are not really our own. Our journey together has been a long one. We first meet in the Provincial (now Regional) hospital Bamenda although in different units in 1985.As time went on we discovered we were both ex- students of Saker Baptist college Victoria (Limbe).We belonged to the same social group, “Mother is Gold “Ma Regi was a committed catholic christain a member of Focolare movement and distributed the word of life to many of us monthly to strengthen our faith in God. She was a renowned nutritionist and one of a few in the region. She would advise on food intake whenever and wherever.she was very careful with whatever she ate.

As a member of “Mother is Gold “ she will be remembered as one of their past presidents. As President she preached love and practiced love ,she will really be missed.

As a sakerrette we are speechless, we have been hard hit by a number of our sisters leaving us in a roll. We still thank God and give him the praise.

Ma Regi I remember the good time we had together in Colorado during the wedding of my son 2016, I equally remember the good time we had together July 2022 in Maryland during a wedding.I remember our chats on what’s app this November 2022 and phone calls. Ma Regi , you were a soft spoken ,composed and caring person.Greet your friend Ma Helen Tata.I can only say farewell my sister, friend and mother to glory land.May our lord and savior Jesus Christ accept your soul and present it to the lord most high,till we meet again to part no more.

Helen Fohtung

Sister Regie, Big Sis, my Friend, Adviser, Motivator, the gentle but firm force behind my endeavors, since the confirmation of your sudden death, I have been heartbroken and confused in my thoughts.  I wish I could get up from this nightmare Sister Regie, I wish I could turn back the hands of time. Sister, we are all crying for you; your Sakerettes are distraught in pain. Is this how cruel death can be, no good byes? You dragged all of us to onpassive out of a selfless compassionate heart to share with everyone what is helpful and beneficial. Onpassive is coming to fruition, where are you to reap the fruits of your labor, all the plans and prospects we shared during our conversations. You were our family dietician, making sure Ni kept his diet and followed up at any opportunity to make sure he was fine from Bamenda to the US you never gave up.

Sister, I know you have always been prepared to meet your Maker at any time because of the Kingdom values you upheld but I never knew it was going to be so soon. We cannot question God’s decision for His is always the best but we can only say thank you Lord for the quality time you spent here on earth with us. You have now joined the heavenly hosts in the heavenly choir. We bow to God’s will for your life. Greet our Mother your friend Mama Grace Bola as you join her. Seeing you in the picture you sent to me in her green Kaba and reading your message gives me peace because I know that divine connection has been truly affirmed as you said. To God be the glory. We miss the sweet contagious smile and the soft and gentle voice. You have fought the good fight, you have finished the race, you have kept the faith. Receive your crown from our Heavenly Father. Your memories shall forever remain in our hearts. Love you Sis. Rest sweet Angel, rest in perfect peace in the bosom of your Maker. Adieu until we meet one day to part no more.