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“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.” –1 Corinthians 13:4-8
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Mark Clegg, from the company …
2021, Argyle, TX, USA
Mark Clegg, from the company I work for, send this to us. A reassurance that Kristopher is in Heaven and he is finally at peace.
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2021, Argyle, TX, USA
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Our deepest and heartfelt condolences to Kristy, Grandparents, and all family.
God Bless you all, I can’t even imagine the pain you are all dealing with from the loss of Kris. When James told me I was shocked, I’ve always had a special place in my heart for Kris, he will truly be missed by my family, especially by me. I often think about helping him out with bail money, maybe if I didn’t his outcome from that situation would have been different and he’d still be here, I don’t know. Maybe my intention out of love to help him ended up being more of a hindrance . That thought weighs heavy in my mind and in my soul like none other. Kristopher was like a second son to me, and I always enjoyed
his company when he stayed at our house. He is a kind and compassionate
person, I use “is” because his spirit and memory will always be a part of me and all who knew him, his soul lives on in our hearts..... Nancy Scarbrough & Family
You'll be in our hearts forever Kristopher, and we're sure your soul is flying high in the skies...
A Prayer For Our Family and Our Friends,,,,
You hold time within your hands, and see it all, from beginning to end. Please keep and carry these precious people in their sadness and loss. Cover them with your great wings of love, give their weary hearts rest and their minds sound sleep. Lord, lift their eyes so that they may catch a glimpse of eternity, and be comforted by the promise of heaven.
But as it is written:
“No eye has seen, no ear has heard, and no mind has imagined
the things that God has prepared for those who love him.” 1 Corinthians 2:9
We ask all this in the precious name of Jesus
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Kristopher was our first born grandson. He spend a lots of time with us through out his life. He left a big void in our life and a big hole in our hearts. We love him so very much.
In response to "How did you first meet Kristopher?"
To always smile, see the good in everyone, don't waist your energy on getting mad, do not judge.
In response to "What did you learn from Kristopher?"
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sitting here thinking about kris.. as a young girl I held so much in, which turned into anger. I was always fighting and arguing.. I never wanted anyone opinion on anything, they didn’t know why I was going through, so it didn’t matter. Kris really taught me how to be soft, he would always tell me that it’s not healthy to act like nothing bothers me. He would pick at my head for hours, wondering why I thought and moved the way I did. Sometimes I would feel like he was questioning me like I was a experiment haha.. but I would explain myself to him, and after it all he would just tell me that it’s okay, he would explain stuff to me and break it down in a way I never would even have thought of before. He definitely turned me on to a new way of thinking. A new life. I will always remember our late night convos and everything we sat up at night talking about. I will always protect and love kristy as he would & a lil extra bc I’ve always been a lil extra when it came to mama kristy. I miss him so much. Today it’s just hitting so hard. I regret a lot in our friendship but the most is how much I didn’t appreciate him when I had him. I didn’t even say thank you for everything he’s done or even acknowledge it. It breaks me. He never deserved how I’d ghost off and ignore him, even though I know he only wanted to make sure I was okay. I will never forget anything, he taught me the biggest lesson in my life, never take shit for granted. Cherish your loved ones while they are here and watch how you treat one another.
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I wanted to share this pictur…
I wanted to share this picture bc this picture was the beginning of our friendship. I could always call kristopher. No matter what time it was, what he was going through, or what I was going through. Life always put us right back together. Loosing him has hurt me more than I can even explain. He was truly one of my bestfriends despite anything we went through or the life I chose. I can’t even think about it too long bc then I end up wanting to call him and as we all know, those calls don’t go through. My heart breaks for what happened to him. He wasn’t a thug, bad person, gang member, or even close to a fucking asshole. My mind will never understand why something so terrible happened to such a good person but hey, that’s this fucked up ass world we live in. In 2019, before me and my babies father got back together I spent so much time w Rizzo and kris at wallys world. I’m grateful for those times bc it really just showed me no matter what he would always be there and not having that anymore is killing me inside. Not having a friend like him w weight on me forever but he taught me what a real friend was and I will give the love he shown to everyone else around me. I’ve known kris since 2012. Not that long, but long enough. No one will ever compare to such a vibrant soul. I WILL KEEP YOUR NAME LIVING TOPHIE🤍🕊
Khristopher at the motorcycle…
California, USA
Khristopher at the motorcycle races
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Kris, Khrys, and Jeremiah hav…
Kris, Khrys, and Jeremiah have been the three musketeers since day 1. Love all of these memories we shared! ❤
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I am always taking the pics o…
Great Falls, VA, USA
I am always taking the pics of the three cousins (Kris, Khrys, and Jeremiah) and so I'm never in the pics. I'm so glad selfies became a thing! I cherish this pic with me and Kris. I can't believe you are gone. We were just texting the day before. It doesn't seem real. I am so sad that I will not be able to talk to or hug you again. I love you Kris. -Auntie Jessica
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Niagara Falls, NY, USA
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Dear Nadia
We are so sorry for your loss, our thoughts are with you and your family in this difficult moment. We would express our deepest condolences. Gabriella & Family
If anyone would like to join us for a candle light vigil and balloon release, we are gathering at Mount Helix at 4 pm tomorrow, Friday March 12th balloon release will be at 445. We hope to see Many of you there to share our Love for Kristopher. Balloons and candles Will be provided. ❤️
I remember on my birthday Kris helped my friend Mike install a CD player in my 85 Mercury Marquee. They got up early and the two of them had that thing installed before I woke up for work. He was so stoked for me and happy to have been able to give me that new and better stereo. I remember one time he couldn't find his phone (in retrospect I think that was a setup) and when I called it for him he had Amy Winehouses "Rehab" as the ring tone for me. He thought it was hilarious I thought it sucked. He was always a team player. Ready and willing to indulge if not help me in whatever grunge, hippy, non denominational philanthropic endeavor I might be on. He never judged me (at least not to my face) he just wanted us to be happy and stable. Those memories make me smile and cry all at once. He was such a sweet, understanding, and caring boy. He was really starting to come into his own with his music, gaining confidence on the stage and being proud of his own voice, and his voice and word play were beautiful. He was working a legit 9-5 with a moving company and saving for his bail on that Kansas weed charge. He didn't express that he felt in any kind of danger or that he was struggling in any way. He had just got perscription glasses (turns out computer and phone screens are bad for our eyes) for the first time in his life and sent a picture of himself wearing them to my mom. (His Noni) He looked really healthy, he was growing a little mustache and putting on weight. He was going into studio 825 regularly working on his music. I never once feared that my time with him was limited. That that phone call would be our last. I totally took it all for granted. I think we all take our time here together for granted. I never would have thought that his future would play out like this. I was suppose to die before anyone else in my family did. The finality of this experience is so hard to grasp and process. Even though intuitivly I know that our bodies are just a shell and when we pass our soul is free it is still really hard to accept. I might just be selfishly upset that now that he can go wherever he likes as often as he likes he doesnt choose to come and spend his free time with me. I know he is still looking out for all of us down here on earth. I know he is able to do much more now that he is rid of all these earthly attachments and the bondages they entail. He had such a beautiful shell though and again selfishly that is what I will miss. Talking to him, hugging him, going to see him perform, listening to his latest poetry on our late night chats, giving him advice, being needed by him, being able to introduce him proudly as my son. He shared my heart for humanity as a whole and obviously he grasped spiritual concepts better than me or he would be here and I would be gone. My heart is heavy and sad and my mind is so full of unanswered questions. Still I am okay because I know this life is temporary. I guess I'm just trying to make sense of a senseless act and I want to hold those people that did this to him accountable. I will end up killing myself with guilt and sorrow if I entertain all the what could have been scenarios, the ways in which I made the wrong choices. I'm sorry for all the selfish childish decisions I made in my past but I can only look forward there's no looking back. If you were a good part of Tophies life dont have any regrets please just send out good vibes and love in his memory that's what he would have wanted. Thank you all for your love and support it really means the world to me. Kristy.
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I remember you before you came to us. Making memories with Aaron and Kristy as we waited on you to join us. We were all so young back then. I am so deeply saddened by you leaving us so abruptly... You had a beautiful smile and a certain charm about you that I will never forget. Keep on truckin Kristopher. I know I'll see your big smile again. My heart goes out to Aaron, Kristy, Gabs, Jack, Mila.

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