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It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Kay Lapole, who left us on June 16, 2023 at Winchester Medical Center in Winchester, VA. Kay was born on April 17, 1961, to parents Loretta Kretzer and Eugene Speaker, who have both predeceased her. A loving mother, wife, grandmother, sister, and friend, Kay's warm-hearted presence will be dearly missed by all who knew her.

Kay is survived by her husband, Ronald Staley and …

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Kay Lapole was a wonderful person.  I worked with her at UHC. She will be missed.  May she rest in peace with the lord. 
Kay Lapole was a wonderful person.  I worked with her at UHC. She will be missed.  May she rest in …
Kay Lapole was a wonderful person.  I worked with her at UHC. Sh…

My beautiful sister Kay, even though we only found each other 10 years ago and didn't see each other as often as we wan…

My beautiful sister Kay, even though we only found each other 10 years ago and didn't see each othe…

My beautiful sister Kay, even though we only found each other 10…

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What were Kay's favorite ways to spend free time?
Spending time with her grandkids and beloved dog Teddy
Spending time with her grandkids and beloved dog Teddy
Spending time with her grandkids and beloved dog Teddy

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Born

April 17th, 1961
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Passed away

June 16th, 2023
Winchester, VA

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