Memories of Jocelyn "Joy" Alejo Pascua

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Jocelyn "Joy" Alejo Pascua

Tarrytown, NY, USA

September 19, 1976 - December 12, 2020

Sep 19, 1976 - Dec 12, 2020

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Nicken Fergiste

2018, Aruba

Joy and some new found friends

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Nicken Fergiste

It was a privilege to have met you all the way in Aruba. Thank you for making our vacation more joyful and... Read more It was a privilege to have met you all the way in Aruba. Thank you for making our vacation more joyful and fun than it would have... Read more It was a privilege to have met you all the way in Aruba.... Read more

Joan Fonacier-Wohst

I remember this. She told me I remember this. She told me I remember this. She told me

Joan Fonacier-Wohst

About meeting you both on this trip. She had such a great time! Thank you for remembering her. About meeting you both on this trip. She had such a great time! Thank you for remembering her. About meeting you both on this trip. She had such ... Read more

Rolando Materon

With our deepest sympathy.

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Theresa Uy

This is Ayla again—The amazing Mickey Santana created a song dedicated to my mother, and it’s beautiful! Check it out.

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Jeff Gladstone

So I just cried my eyes out watching this - so beautifully performed. Thank you. So I just cried my eyes out watching this - so beautifully performed. Thank you. So I just cried my eyes out watching this - so beautifully... Read more

Jeff Gladstone

In memory of Joy Pascua "Joyful, Joyful" as some of us called her. As painful as your sudden loss is, we will always hold onto the great memories of the joy you brought to us all. I played this to celebrate your bright light, beautiful soul, and your life dedicated to your loving your family, your friends, and helping others. 👼🏽🕯💐

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Susan Varon

Beautiful, Jeff. Beautiful, Jeff. Beautiful, Jeff.

Jeff Gladstone

<3 <3 <3

Jeff Gladstone

XOXO XOXO XOXO

Theresa Uy

Thank you, Jeff!!!!❤️ Thank you, Jeff!!!!❤️ Thank you, Jeff!!!!❤️

John Loja

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time!!

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Sarah Yares

2019, Westchester, NY, USA

Kumares forever

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Joan Fonacier-Wohst

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Sarah Yares

We maybe busy with our work,children,but we always find time to reach out ,and catch up ,Joy kumare we will... Read more We maybe busy with our work,children,but we always find time to reach out ,and catch up ,Joy kumare we will miss you so much ,who... Read more We maybe busy with our work,children,but we always ... Read more

Lucas & Aida Montecel

She had a beautiful voice. We would go to see her sing and whatever pain or bad vibes I had they would go... Read more She had a beautiful voice. We would go to see her sing and whatever pain or bad vibes I had they would go away. Lived to watch... Read more She had a beautiful voice. We would go to see her sing... Read more

Theresa Uy

2020, Old Glory Park, West New York, NJ, USA

Hi everyone, this is Ayla checking in! Many of you may have received my thank you note already, but those words (maybe any words for that matter) cannot express the immense gratitude that I have for each and every one of you who have reached out and supported my family and me during this time. Truly, we will not be getting through this without all of you! I’m able to stay strong because of you guys, and my mom is watching down on us and smiling (as beautifully as in this picture) at the wonderful people she had in her life. ❤️

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Dalin Rivera

XOXOXOX Ayla and the rest of your family. We loved and continue to love ur momma oh so very much! XOXOXOX Ayla and the rest of your family. We loved and continue to love ur momma oh so very much! XOXOXOX Ayla and the rest of your family. We loved ... Read more

Hollz WS

Ayla, I’m so very sorry for your loss. We all love Joy so much at The Actors Fund. She was an amazing bright... Read more Ayla, I’m so very sorry for your loss. We all love Joy so much at The Actors Fund. She was an amazing bright star. I’m so happy... Read more Ayla, I’m so very sorry for your loss. We all love ... Read more

Leeny Coronel

Ayla, I’m so so very sorry for your loss. <3 Your mother was one of the kindest souls I’ve ever had the ... Read more Ayla, I’m so so very sorry for your loss. <3 Your mother was one of the kindest souls I’ve ever had the privilege to know. I ... Read more Ayla, I’m so so very sorry for your loss. <3 Your ... Read more

Zehava Ungar

Ayla, I’m sure you don’t remember me but I used to work with your mom at the Actors Fund and when she would... Read more Ayla, I’m sure you don’t remember me but I used to work with your mom at the Actors Fund and when she would bring you to work ... Read more Ayla, I’m sure you don’t remember me but I used to ... Read more

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Bernadette Kim

2010, Manhattan, New York, NY, USA

Ice Skating at Bryant Park

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Joan Fonacier-Wohst

Oh! Ice skating was one of the things she loved and enjoyed. I think she would do this to melt the stress... Read more Oh! Ice skating was one of the things she loved and enjoyed. I think she would do this to melt the stress away and to just be... Read more Oh! Ice skating was one of the things she loved and... Read more

Judy Fish

My dearest Joy, you were an angel to all who knew you, spreading Joy, laughter and music. I feel blessed to have known you as a co-worker and a friend. May Ayla always know how much you loved her and that your spirit will always be with her. Sending healing thoughts and prayers to Jerome and her family.

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Bernadette Kim

Ayla, Kylie and my daughter, Stephanie are BFFs since first grade and so I call us, the mothers - the BFF mothers. Joy truly embodies her name - happy, full of life, jokester and a talented singer. We, as working mothers, took turns in babysitting the kids during long breaks so we didn't have to use up all our vacation days. I'll truly miss Joy in the many barbeques and beach trips we had with my BFF families. Joy must be so proud of the fine lady that Ayla has become - smart, gracious and responsible. We will miss her and are sending our love and prayers to her loved ones.

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Sherron Carrion

I knew from the moment I met you that you were someone special that we needed at Episcopal Relief & Development. I remember telling Malaika ( I found the right person ) and her name is Joy! We instantly connected and your light shined thru our Zoom Call. You came into the organization with that same light, boldness, and most of all confidence. Thank you for choosing to work for us. You will be missed. Praying you Ayla and Jerome and the entire family.
Sherron

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Susan Varon

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Antoinette Marcos

My dearest Joy
Why did you leave so sudden? I cannot accept, I am heart broken. You told me last year, my 1st time in NY that when I go back, I will watch your shows. I am so sad. I know you can see how much you meant to us, we love you Joy, always & forever!

Dear Ayla
I am crying with you. Your mom will always be proud of you. You are amazing & very strong. I hope to meet you someday. Very tight hugs to you. Sending my condolences to you.

Dear Jerome
I just wanted to thank you for loving Joy & making her so happy. I love seeing your photos especially the vacation ones, singing duet videos & posts. That's true love. Hope to meet you someday. Deepest Condolences to you.

Dear Kristine, Tita, Tito & the whole family
Sincerest Condolences to all of you. Joy will be missed by so many. She was a wonderful person. She touched our hearts. I am deeply sorry for your loss, I can feel your pain. Please be strong for one another. Joy will be watching over you.

Joy will be forever in our hearts.

Love & hugs
Antoinette

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Antoinette Marcos

Joy was my classmate & very dear friend back in High School, she was such a talented person, a great leader, full of energy, full of joy & had a very big heart.
I am so happy I was able to meet up with her during our first visit in NY just last year, March 2019.
It was short & sweet but we laughed a lot.
I will forever cherish my last hug & kiss with Joy.
I will miss her so much.

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