So, I have known Joe nearly all my life! I think he was quite shocked when he married Anna, and thus her WHOLE loud, argumentative, loud, spirited family! He was heard saying, more than once, those unconscious Cashmer's! He was a big softy and all the little ones in the family completely had his heart wrapped around their little fingers. He could not say no to a stray cat. I will miss him dearly. Peace be with you Joe. ~Mimi