Be with God! I can't believe the times we had as kids in Boy Scouts or at OLC on the swim team. Rest easy, Jacob.
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Our deepest condolences to the McLaughlin family, Judy and Hillary Krill, and all of Jake’s friends. I met Jake and his family through Judy and got to know them better from the many years we spent watching our children compete in swimming. Though much time has passed, what I remember most about Jake was his kindness. My family and I are so very sorry for your loss.
Michele Carlotti and family
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Dear Mary, Jim and Maggie,
We are deeply sorry for the loss of Jacob. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. He was a fine young man.
Sincerly,
Roger and Chris Myers
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Jake was such an amazing friend. We were classmates all the way from grade school through high school, and he was always there for me. I'm not sure I could've gotten through high school without Jake. Not only was he super smart and willing to help with homework, but he was also incredibly kind and giving with his time. He offered encouragement. He was a great listener. And he was so so funny. When we went to college, he came to visit me once in Boston, and we had such a fun time. He was one of those friends that you could hang out with after a while apart, and it would feel like no time had passed since the last time you saw each other. I will miss him dearly, and I will cherish the memories I have of him. My heart and prayers are with the family. Love you, Jake.
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I am just learning of Jake's passing and I am heartbroken. Always an unspeakable tragedy when a beautiful life is cut short. Jake was always nothing but kind to me and a true friend to my late brother and their friend group.
Please accept my sincere and heartfelt condolences. God bless your family and I wish you peace
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McLaughlin family, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Jake. He was truly a wonderful soul. I am so glad that swimming brought us all together. You are continually in my thoughts and prayers.
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I'm sitting here as I try to wrap my head and mind around the realization that Jake, Jmack, Jake the Snake, the kid who could brighten up any room that he enters by just his smile and quick wit, is gone. To Mr. & Mrs. McLaughlin, to Maggie, to Hillary and the rest of Jake's family, I send my deepest condolances on losing such a special soul.
Competitive swimming is what lead to Jake's and my paths crossing- from competing against and with each other in the parochial league, to Lake Erie Summer Swimming, Erie Aquatics, Cathedral Prep, and more. Jake's wit and charm was a way to brighten up the pool area even in the dreariest and darkest of hours- from "dancing on deck," to Jmack's latest tunes, to Secret Santas, long water polo trips to Eastern PA, and more, Jake had a way of making even the most cumbersome of days just a little lighter. Jake had a way of making everyone feel welcome and invited, whether he know you for 20 years or if you just met him 20 minutes earlier. He cared deeply for his family, for his friends, faith, and all those that were around him. He would always lend an ear to listen to, and he had a personality that came second to none.
There's really just no words to describe what sort of impact Jake had left on all the lives he's touched. Jake, we love you, we miss you, and there will forever be a hole in our hearts, mind, and soul that will never be able to be filled. Jmack, you're one of a kind brother. Love you and miss you always.
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2022, Alexandria, VA, USA
Met up to catch up, talk politics
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2017, Lake Erie, Pennsylvania, USA
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Lake Erie, Pennsylvania, USA
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Lake Erie, Pennsylvania, USA
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Jake (JMac) was such a special person❤️ He and Ben were friends throughout their whole lives. These two could talk for hours on end and never run out of material….they were so entertaining to listen to. But JMac immediately made me feel like I had known him my entire life too. He had such a unique way of making everyone feel included and loved.
Some of my favorite memories with JMac include bonfires on Kelso beach, swimming in Lake Erie, Christmas parties with all of our siblings and friends, wedding festivities, and DC visits to Shelly’s. I will never forget his hugs, eating wedding cake while dancing to the Groove at Ben’s and my wedding, and his hilarious stories while sitting at late night beach bonfires. I will also never forget the way he lit up when I asked about the rest of the McLaughlin Crew. He adored his family and was always so proud to update me on everyone’s latest adventures.
I’m sending all my love to Maggie, Mary & Jim during this extremely difficult time ❤️
“Grief is the price we pay for love”-Queen Elizabeth II
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Dear McLaughlin Family,
While our acquaintance goes way back to OLC and the Saint Jude neighborhood, it feels like just yesterday as I read Jacob's obituary and think back to those days when your family was in step with ours in many ways, our "Maggies" as friends in those early days and Brigid in the high school tennis circles. I remember Jake's faithful involvement at Saint Jude, always a smile and attentiveness to doing a good job. At this difficult time know of our prayers for the repose of Jacob's soul and for all who grieve his passing. May your family find comfort in fond memories and peace through faith. 🕊️
Lisa Louis
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Mr & Mrs McLaughlin and Maggie,
I am so very sorry for the loss of sweet Jake. Words fall short at a time like this. They cannot truly encapsulate how sorry I am for your loss. The world lost a good one, lost a little bit of light, when we lost Jake.
I have many years of memories growing up swimming with Jake at OLC and Lake Shore. He was always such a kind boy, a wonderful teammate, and a talented swimmer. He was an integral part of those adolescent memories that I hold dear to my heart.
Jake left an indelible mark on us. It is my hope that where he is now, he is free from pain and full of our love.
You, your family and Jake hold a special place in my heart. Sending you love, comfort and peace during this difficult time.
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I am heartbroken to have learned of Jacob's death. Please accept my deepest prayers and sympathies to all of you. Jake was a very special man for his entire life, and he had such a profound faith in the Lord ... it was simple, uncomplicated, but deeply strong. I told him countless times that he should be ordained a priest. Then again, his entire, short life was a living example of the Word of God. I find some peace knowing that, on the threshold of the holiest time of the year, Jake is basking in the Light and Glory of the very face of God! Jake is now having his own Easter!
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2023, Washington D.C., DC, USA
When I first met Jake he was my competition. Well maybe not too much because he would alway beat me. I still think of Jake competing in one of the parochial league tennis tournament in a cast. I could never! And then in the pool I had to compete with him in breaststroke. Haha I never stood a chance. Flash forward to high school and finally I had him on my team. We became doubles partners in tennis and teammates in the pool. He was one of my best friends and was so lucky to join him in sports. Post college we eventually were “right down the road” from one another. We had the chance to watch tennis at the DC tennis open. As former doubles partners I loved this. Jake was a friends I may have not always seen but I really enjoyed getting to see. I imagine Jake’s quick wit and enthusiasm if I were to be talking with him now. Rest easy Jake we will always miss you! Always my partner on the court! I love and miss you!
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Dearest Mary, Jim and Maggie, my heartfelt sympathy on the passing of your son, Jacob. May the love, prayers and support of your family and friends bring you comfort during this most difficult time - Love, Lilly
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So sorry for your loss Jim, Mary and Maggie. May your memories comfort you through this difficult time.
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Mary and Jim, So sorry to read about the passing of Jacob. Cherish your memories of him. Prayers and sympathy to your family.
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My condolences to Jacob’s parents and sister. Jake was such a caring and friendly young man. He had a keen sense of humor and made others feel welcomed. Rather than focus on Jake’s passing, the focus should be on celebrating the memories of how he lived. Jake will be missed.
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