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From the few times I talked to Ian, it was easy to see how funny, generous, talented, and smart he is. Rest In Peace brotha.
I can not imagine the pain from such a devastating loss. My heart truly goes out to Laurs, Jeff, Marco and all who had the gift of being in Ian's life. When I first met Ian I was so impressed by his level of maturity, gentleness and intelligence. I totally understood why my daughter, Laura was in love with him. Ian was a bright and caring light in our world. He shown on all those around him. I know now he is illuminating all of the heavens. Sencere sympathy from myself and Dick. Sending love. You will be in our thoughts and prayers
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Laura, I have been thinking about you so much this past week. We all learned from each other before our December babies were born and I loved seeing you with Ian and your loving, caring relationship from when he was wee. I hope you find some strength knowing people around the world are sending love your way. I am heartbroken for you. ❤️❤️❤️
Nataly Daly
2018, Tewksbury Memorial High School
I met Ian my freshman year of high school. I remember he came in to my freshman biology class and really lit up the room. My two friends and I talked to Ian a couple times and made friendly conversation. I didn't know him well as he was a Junior at the time, but I do know he was really nice and a cool person to talk to. We were so upset when we heard the news, and I send my deepest condolences.
Our deepest sympathies to Ian's family and friends. He was a wonderful young man who we all have fond memories of. He will be dearly missed. -Team 8D-Mike Gillespie, Josh Bilodeau, Nicole Flood, Kim Terry
Ian and Max - freshman year, …
2021, UMass Amherst, Amherst, MA, USA
Ian and Max - freshman year, finally on campus. I first met Ian when he came to jam in my basement - he was a very talented musician. He had come over several times to play with Max, sometimes a drummer, and another guitarist and I liked that they connected - not everyone likes the same music that they do! When we helped move Max into the dorm, Ian had already moved in and helped us. In between trips, I stayed behind and got to talk to Ian and told him, as only the dorky mom that I am could, that I was glad they had each other and it was going to be a good year. Any young man who is polite, has manners, and can engage in conversation with me or any other adult is great in my book. Ian was such a cool and great person who was kind, warm, and friendly, and he will definitely be missed by Max and our family. We are thinking of you!
“May the radiance and beauty of their lives not be defined by their death” -Unknown
Ian and I after a middle scho…
2014, Tewksbury, MA, USA
Ian and I after a middle school concert. We had worked together as soloists in the same song. He was always so talented, and was always someone you could count on to make you laugh. My heart goes out to Ian’s family.
We are very sorry for your loss. Praying for your family.
I am in utter shock. Waking up and seeing and hearing the news, I don’t even know how to process. Ian, my old friend, I will always remember your intelligence and creativity and kindness; you were taken too soon, and may you rest in only the utmost peace. Fly high, our dear friend.
Laura, reading these memories it is clear Ian was loved by many, and that he touched the lives of even more with his wit, inquisitive nature, and varied interests. My deepest condolences on this devastating loss. May these memories offer some measure of comfort. -Jayne Wellman
Riding through the desert on …
2021, KOLI Equestrian Center, Chandler, AZ, USA
Riding through the desert on a horse (with a name: Tom).
I’ve only met a handful of pe…
I’ve only met a handful of people like Ian in my lifetime, he will be missed by sooo many.
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Ian was truly a force of nature. I remember so many moments with Ian that I look back on with fondness, he was just so funny and compelling. I remember Ms. Abate’s 7th grade homeroom with him. I remember getting street food with him in 6th grade on the NYC trip, and rooming with him on the DC trip. He even did my 8th grade Spanish cooking project with me. Even though it was not as legendary or infamous as the flaming churro, I still remember having so much fun eating our nachos together by candlelight listening to The Carless Whisper for the video. I remember 9th grade English and 10th grade math with him, most every day he would tell me about his rowing club (Essex Rowing Club I believe). And even though we lost touch a bit later in high school, I still have run into him several times since the pandemic just getting ice cream at Meadowlands.

I still have a book that Ian gave me in 7th grade around Christmas time just because he thought I would enjoy reading it. We always had great conversations about history and geography, and I always felt connected to him through our clashing of minds. Like so many others have said, he was very sharp and used his wit and intelligence to touch practically everyone he encountered. There are so many little memories, and I hope some I have shared here offer some condolence. Love to all, especially Ian’s family. I can’t possibly think of what to say besides I am so sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry to hear of your loss.
I had Ian in class during his senior year. He was always a fun student to talk with everyday. He was so excited about his senior project learning to play all the instruments. He will be missed by everyone who was ever lucky enough to spend some time with him.

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