Thinking of you ❤️. unfortunately, I never met Ian in real life, but think of him all the same. Any parent would.
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One of my favorite Ian stories came from the time when he was learning to ride a two-wheel bike. Grandpa Wally asked Ian if he wore a helmet when he rode, and Ian responded with, "Why wouldn't I?" We laughed because he was so matter of fact and was essentially telling us that it was the rule, and Ian was a rule follower. I miss my beautiful grandson.
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I only knew Ian for a few weeks while in the hospital, though we kept in touch for some time after. Despite being in an unideal situation, Ian made the best of it and would always cheer people up with his humor. I vividly remember playing many games if Settlers of Caton with him (he would usually win). Once he even brought in his didgeridoo which everyone enjoyed. I could always count on Ian to make me laugh and raise my spirits. When he left the hospital, he wrote me a really thoughtful letter which I still have today. He was such a bright light and I’m thinking of him extra on his birthday❤️
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Daniel has said that he feels he was creatively inspired by Ian. We have so many fond memories of their visits together in their pre middle school years, before we moved. There was always make-believe going on in the playdates, instead of TV or video games.
There is a memory I have of one of Ian's visits which always makes me giggle. He was with us on a late August day, which happened to be Meet the Teacher Day for 4th grade at Daniel's school. As we were leaving afterwards, we ran into the school principal. We said hello and I introduced Ian. Dr. McBride smiled at him and said "I'm the principal". Ian looked at her appraisingly, and after a second, said matter-of-factly: "Cool". :)
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Ian was a student in my study hall class. What stands out to me is how thoughtful he was. Ian was refreshingly present. He put down his phone and had a conversation. I could count on him to ask how I was and really listen. I remember his beautiful smile as he took time to connect and have a meaningful conversation. He made me laugh when he told me that my own kids were old enough to make their own lunches and that I should retire from that job!
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Loved it when we celebrated Ian’s birthday together as family with his favorite cake and candles. However, best of all was experiencing Ian’s great smile and hugs. So missed. Love you always.
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You are in our thoughts, especially today.
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Dear Laura, Jeff, and Marco,
We are so very sorry for your loss of Ian.
I have such happy memories of Ian's and Dan's visits together. Ian was one of Daniel's very first friends. Ian was a wonderful, interesting, funny and sweet guy. He was also a good and genuine friend. Dan was thrilled to see Ian again a couple of years ago, when they went to lunch together, and then went and looked at guitars. He was awed by Ian's guitar playing.
We will miss Ian.
Sending you all much love,
Eileen, Dan, and Roy.
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2005, Kingston, ON, Canada
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