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Thinking of you ❤️. unfortunately, I never met Ian in real life, but think of him all the same. Any parent would.
Tewksbury, MA, USA
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One of my favorite Ian stories came from the time when he was learning to ride a two-wheel bike. Grandpa Wally asked Ian if he wore a helmet when he rode, and Ian responded with, "Why wouldn't I?" We laughed because he was so matter of fact and was essentially telling us that it was the rule, and Ian was a rule follower.  I miss my beautiful grandson.
I only knew Ian for a few weeks while in the hospital, though we kept in touch for some time after. Despite being in an unideal situation, Ian made the best of it and would always cheer people up with his humor. I vividly remember playing many games if Settlers of Caton with him (he would usually win). Once he even brought in his didgeridoo which everyone enjoyed. I could always count on Ian to make me laugh and raise my spirits. When he left the hospital, he wrote me a really thoughtful letter which I still have today. He was such a bright light and I’m thinking of him extra on his birthday❤️

Daniel has said that he feels he was  creatively inspired by Ian.   We have so many fond memories of their visits together in their pre middle school years, before we moved.   There was always make-believe going on in the playdates, instead of TV or video games. 

There is a memory I have of one of Ian's visits which always makes me giggle.   He was with us on a late August day,  which happened to be Meet the Teacher Day for 4th grade at Daniel's school.   As we were leaving afterwards,  we ran into the school principal.   We said hello and I introduced Ian.   Dr. McBride smiled at him and said "I'm the principal".    Ian looked at her appraisingly, and after a second,  said matter-of-factly: "Cool".    :)

Ian was a student in my study hall class.  What stands out to me is how thoughtful he was.  Ian was refreshingly present.  He put down his phone and had a conversation.  I could count on him to ask how I was and really listen.  I remember his beautiful smile as he took time to connect and have a meaningful conversation.  He made me laugh when he told me that my own kids were old enough to make their own lunches and that I should retire from that job!  
Loved it when we celebrated Ian’s birthday together as family with  his favorite cake and candles. However, best of all was experiencing Ian’s great smile and hugs. So missed. Love you always.

Dear Laura, Jeff, and Marco,

We are so very sorry for your loss of Ian.

I have such happy memories of Ian's and Dan's visits together.  Ian was one of Daniel's very first friends.  Ian was a wonderful, interesting, funny and sweet guy.   He was also a good and genuine friend.   Dan was thrilled to see Ian again a couple of years ago, when they went to lunch together, and then went and looked at guitars.  He was awed by Ian's guitar playing.   

We will miss Ian.

Sending you all much love,

Eileen, Dan, and Roy.

I had the true privilege of meeting Ian in Lowell about a year ago right before Christmas. I was taking a group of teenagers to the Boston Pops Christmas concert, Nick was with us. I had an extra ticket and Ian met us there. All decked out in their ugly Christmas sweaters. I will never forget the enthusiasm that he shared that afternoon with all of us. He had a truly gifted appreciation for the arts. May your joyful memories of Ian help you through this sad time.
On behalf of all the Fountain family I wish to express my deepest sympathy for your loss. Please know you are in our prayers.

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