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In memory of
Fredricka "Baby Bear Mom" Woodburn Dahlander
June 20, 1941 - May 30, 2025
Jun 20, 1941 - May 30, 2025
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Background
Our Story: Carrying the Crown and final wishes for Fredricka
In the final months of our beloved mother Fredricka Woodburn Dahlander’s life — affectionately known as “Baby Bear Mom” — she made the brave and dignified decision to remain at home, surrounded by love and comfort, rather than undergo more medical intervention. Her daughters, Sanna and Lulli, immediately stepped in to care for her full time, leaving behind their homes and careers to give her the round-the-clock support, peace, and tenderness she deserved.
What many people don’t know is that Fredricka’s finances had been placed in the hands of someone she trusted, who unfortunately failed to uphold their fiduciary duty. As a result, much of what she had saved was mismanaged and lost, leaving her without the resources she should have had in her final chapter.
Sanna left her job in Colorado and moved into the home. Lulli left her place in Palm Springs and joined her sister. Neither of them received financial compensation or support for the care they provided — they simply did it out of love.
Now, with Fredricka’s passing, we are facing urgent financial needs — especially the property taxes on her home, which are due by the end of the year. This home was her sanctuary, and we want to preserve it not just in her memory, but to honor the love and legacy she poured into it.
We are humbly asking for your support. Your donations will go directly toward:
• Paying the property taxes on Fredricka’s home ($4,900)
• Helping her daughters stabilize after months without income while providing full-time care
Every contribution helps carry forward the love, dignity, and grace that Fredricka brought into this world. Thank you for helping us honor her the way she deserves — with compassion, with beauty, and with her home becoming a sanctuary for her family. Contribute
In the final months of our beloved mother Fredricka Woodburn Dahlander’s life — affectionately known as “Baby Bear Mom” — she made the brave and dignified decision to remain at home, surrounded by love and comfort, rather than undergo more medical intervention. Her daughters, Sanna and Lulli, immediately stepped in to care for her full time, leaving behind their homes and careers to give her the round-the-clock support, peace, and tenderness she deserved.
What many people don’t know is that Fredricka’s finances had been placed in the hands of someone she trusted, who unfortunately failed to uphold their fiduciary duty. As a result, much of what she had saved was mismanaged and lost, leaving her without the resources she should have had in her final chapter.
Sanna left her job in Colorado and moved into the home. Lulli left her place in Palm Springs and joined her sister. Neither of them received financial compensation or support for the care they provided — they simply did it out of love.
Now, with Fredricka’s passing, we are facing urgent financial needs — especially the property taxes on her home, which are due by the end of the year. This home was her sanctuary, and we want to preserve it not just in her memory, but to honor the love and legacy she poured into it.
We are humbly asking for your support. Your donations will go directly toward:
• Paying the property taxes on Fredricka’s home ($4,900)
• Helping her daughters stabilize after months without income while providing full-time care
Every contribution helps carry forward the love, dignity, and grace that Fredricka brought into this world. Thank you for helping us honor her the way she deserves — with compassion, with beauty, and with her home becoming a sanctuary for her family. Contribute
Funds are being collected and disbursed by Lulli Dahlander, Fredricka's daughter.
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Memories & condolences
I met Freddie in 1985. She was living in Palm Desert with Lulli, who was 13, and her sister Sanna. My connection to thi…
I met Freddie in 1985. She was living in Palm Desert with Lulli, who was 13, and her sister Sanna. …
I met Freddie in 1985. She was living in Palm Desert with Lulli,…
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Hugs love ya sister ❣️
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Hugs love ya sister ❣️
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.…
Dearest Sanna and Lou,
Your mother’s beauty and integrity had no equal, and she will be dearly missed. But I know her l…
Dearest Sanna and Lou,
Your mother’s beauty and integrity had no equal, and she will be dearly miss…
Dearest Sanna and Lou,
Your mother’s beauty and integrity had no…
Sanna & Lulli - Our thoughts are with you and your families during these difficult times. I am sure she was thankful t…
Sanna & Lulli - Our thoughts are with you and your families during these difficult times. I am sur…
Sanna & Lulli - Our thoughts are with you and your families duri…
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Please consider a contribution to The ones who Stayed: Keeping Fredricka’s Home.
$1,225.00
of $4,000 goal
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