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In Loving Memory of

Fredricka Woodburn Lamb Dahlander 

Affectionately known as “Baby Bear Mom”

June 20, 1941 – May 30, 2025

Her 3 daughters Kristin Paschkey,Sanna Dahlander and Lulli Dahlander.Though our hearts grieve the loss of our beloved mother, Fredricka , we know that she would not want us to dwell in sorrow. She would want us to lift our eyes, remember her with joy, and celebrate the remarkable life she lived. While we miss …

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I met Freddie in 1985. She was living in Palm Desert with Lulli, who was 13, and her sister Sanna. My connection to thi…
I met Freddie in 1985. She was living in Palm Desert with Lulli, who was 13, and her sister Sanna. …
I met Freddie in 1985. She was living in Palm Desert with Lulli,…
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Hugs love ya sister ❣️
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Hugs love ya sister ❣️
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.…

Dearest Sanna and Lou,

Your mother’s beauty and integrity had no equal, and she will be dearly missed. But I know her l…

Dearest Sanna and Lou,

Your mother’s beauty and integrity had no equal, and she will be dearly miss…

Dearest Sanna and Lou,

Your mother’s beauty and integrity had no…

Sanna & Lulli - Our thoughts are with you and your families during these difficult times.  I am sure she was thankful t…

Sanna & Lulli - Our thoughts are with you and your families during these difficult times.  I am sur…

Sanna & Lulli - Our thoughts are with you and your families duri…

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What were Fredricka's favorite drinks?
Wine spritzer or margarita
Wine spritzer or margarita
Wine spritzer or margarita
What were Fredricka's favorite performances to watch?
Erin Brockovich ,Art Linkletter kids say the darndest things. Secondhand lions
Erin Brockovich ,Art Linkletter kids say the darndest things. Secondhand lions
Erin Brockovich ,Art Linkletter kids say the darndest things. Secondhand lions

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Born

June 20th, 1941
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Passed away

May 30th, 2025
Yuba City, CA

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Cause of death

Pancreatic cancer

Method of disposition

Burial

Final resting place

Tulocay Cemetery

411 Coombsville Rd, Napa, CA 94558
Chapel Of The Twin Cities
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Chapel Of The Twin Cities

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Fredricka "Baby Bear Mom" Dahlander