Ed was many things. And among those things and very prominently, Ed was generous. He’d give you the shirt off his back. Literally. His sons have closets full of Ed’s shirts.
He showed his generosity in his friendships, in his affection, empathy, and care. He gave of his time, space, and material resources. Ed was an open soul. He shared.
Underlying much of generosity is a belief in abundance. An idea that the world will always provide us with infinite resources. Just beyond the horizon is more time, more money, more love, more opportunities.
The world inherently gives.
And Ed believed in abundance. He believed that the freezer in the kitchen would always hold an abundance of ice cream and pies. Credit for that one goes to Peggy.
He believed in an abundance of fine, clean, well-serviced automobiles. Credit for that one to Lexus.
He believed in an abundance of CBS Sunday Morning programming, of the nightly news, of Law and Order, of NCIS, of SVU, and even the criminal lawyer dramas without acronyms in their titles.
He believed in an abundance of adorable spaniels, of morning dog walks around Chastain Park, of socializing with other dog-walkers.
He believed in an abundance of Peachtree road races, of Peachtree road race t-shirts.
He believed in long, affectionate texts, emails, and letters. He believed in rowing and the rowing club, in non-fiction books, in dramatic movies, in long dinners with friends and family.
He believed in ski vacations and breakfasts with his fraternity brothers.
He believed in Jimmy Carter, in Decatur High School, in Wake Forest University.
He believed there was a large number of people in this world who needed his legal skills.
Ed believed in Christmas.
The belief in abundance does good things. It eases our anxieties about the future, and it grounds us in the present. It is a gift we give to ourselves. It is one that allows us to be like Ed.
Unfailingly generous.