What I'll remember about Uncle Ernest is that he loved family. He would take cross- country trips from the west coast to the east coast, stopping along the way to visit family in various states. He would be the first to arrive at family reunions, relishing the large gatherings of family that he didn't get to see often. I will remember his heartfelt counsel in difficult times. I will also remember his signature smile that radiated his joy in family photos. Your smile will live on in our memories, Uncle Ernest. 

This was a poem Dad wrote and gave to me on one of my birthdays- I think it's applicable in any situation and for anyone:

Rain

Wind

Desert Storm

Cloudy Sky

Freezing Cold

Traffic Jams

Crabby Boss

Long Commute

Overtime

Headache

Tired Feet

Upset Stomach

Doesn't exist in Love

I love you----

Your Father, 

Ernest

When I first met dad I was nervous he had a hardy laugh and a love for God like no other. His hugs were riceless especially if you were having a day.  He took me and my incarcerated husband under his wings and embraced us as his children. I knew I could always talk to him. I was blessed to break bread with him and Monique the week before he went to our father and i know he is in no more pain and loving us just like he always did if not more. I miss you dad but know you instilled inme a faith I won't ever turn away from. Maurice and I love you! Maurice wants to know who he is suppise to go fishing with now. But you will be in his heart when he goes.

Your other daughter and son

God got a great man!!!!

Ernest was an incredible father and raised you well. He was a role model for everyone. He was like a father to everyone.  We will all miss him. 

-Melaku and Wudit’s family

Ernest has been a huge part of our lives for many years . He loved my kids and it was important to him to be a steady Presence in their lives . To teach them Gods word and do his best to live out what he studied and taught . That was a priceless gift to us . 

The hole he left in our life is deeply felt and always will be .

I am very glad to have known , and loved Ernest. He will be missed greatly . But I know his voice and wisdom will always be with us and we will have the best reunion one day .