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Dearest Kari Jo and kids,

I learned of your loss and wanted to reach out and let you know how saddened Annie and I are.

We both remember Cory so fondly during Annie’s playdates with Betsy, at the PS 199 events, and how kind and friendly he always was with us.

We would very much like to attend the memorial service on June 1st, and give you a big hug.

It must be a great comfort having the kids home from college, I hope you’re all doing well.

Lots and lots of love, Kari Jo - please don’t hesitate to reach out if I can do anything at all for you.

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2015, Columbia University Plasma Physics Laboratory, West 120th Street, New York, NY, USA
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" That smile, mom. There isn't a room that Kari Jo's smile can't light up." That's what Zach just said to me last week. The Cates' smiles. All of them. Oh, how they are world altering, indeed! I knew Cory by his smile, the grin behind Kari Jo's beaming face, by the distinct pleasure his expression showcased every time he delighted in Kari Jo when I would stop by to plan a mom's group event, clean an apt, share the joys of motherhood, or do some other Redeemer ministry task. Cory lived to make the beauty of family, community, friendship, neighborhood, excellence, teamwork, and Kingdom living come alive by making much of others and little of himself. His faithful, rock solid, and wildly generous life built a marriage, a family, a neighborhood, communities in New York City and Cold Spring, a company, and future. Kari Jo, Nathan, Henry, Caroline, and Betsy, we love you and are so very sorry that your beloved Cory is not with you here, and we join you in grief and hope- trusting God to meet you now and for Jesus to come quickly back. -Chris and Tom Whitford
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2024, Las Vegas, NV, USA
The Sphere thinks it's what we came for, but we all know we just came to see each other
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2024, Las Vegas, NV, USA
Walking to "the Arts District"
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Cory and KJ pondering the Sph…
2024, Las Vegas, NV, USA
Cory and KJ pondering the Sphere (or Bono's lyrics)
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J & J's baptism - KJ and …
2020, Central Park, New York, NY, USA
J & J's baptism - KJ and C had conducted the kids' interviews for church membership and of course came to celebrate with us on the day of their joining the church
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Thanksgiving with magic poppe…
2022, Cold Spring, NY, USA
Thanksgiving with magic poppers
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Cates' Community Group at Cha…
2004
Cates' Community Group at Charis's apt
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Who knew that you could pour …
2022, middle of nowhere, Quebec
Who knew that you could pour custard on French toast?
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2022, middle of nowhere, Quebec
Bed & Breakfast along our 3-day bike route
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2022, Lac Saint-Jean, Saguenay–Lac-Saint-Jean, QC, Canada
Veloroute des Bleuets
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Cory has had an immeasurable impact on my career, helping me grow as an engineer and more. His handwritten cards were a special treat, even if they were difficult to read :)

Cory and Kari Jo took care of us like family when we came out to visit in 2022 and his kids took turns entertaining our 3 little ones so we could linger at the dinner table to chat. 

He was my boss for more than 8 years and it's difficult to imagine working so closely with anyone again. He gave me freedom to take on hard things and to fail occasionally. But the failures were celebrated and we'd learn from the mistakes and move on. If you wanted to improve something, you always had an audience with Cory, so long as you were willing to invest yourself in it, the way he invested in others. 

My teams benefited from the calm and thoughtful hand of Cory who always had our backs and led by example, bringing others up with him along the way. 

Cory keeping an eye out for m…
2022, Cold Spring, NY, USA
Cory keeping an eye out for my daughter when showing off the awesome tree house they built
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Cory plays with my kids on on…
2022, Minnetonka, MN, USA
Cory plays with my kids on one of the times we got to host him for dinner
Team lunch - appreciated Cory…
2017, NYC, NY, USA
Team lunch - appreciated Cory's positive outlook on life and love of food!

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