Chris was my sister. Guess I was kind of the black sheep, evidenced by the sad fact that no one bothered to notify me of her death. Nice to read the thoughtful comments made by others who loved her. If anyone I knew reads this, I'd like to thank you for the fine times, and terrific addition you made to our small family. Love to our old friends - Lee

I worked As a nurse with Chris in the recovery room At Seattle Children’s Hospital. You will never meet a sweeter, kinder more easy-going person than her.  She will be missed.

We have so many wonderful memories of Chris. We experienced first hand her advocacy for children in the hospital  and the parents of these kids many times with our son David. We had many fun times at the cabin playing Ticket to Ride, celebrating the 4th of July, and just visiting.  Chris was such a special person and had an infectious smile and laugh.  She was so helpful and excited for Richelle during her journey  to become a nurse. 

Steve and Chris set such a great example of a supportive relationship in their marriage. Rest in peace Chris!

My heart is full of sadness and wonderful things to say about Chris. I don’t know where to begin or how to edit. Many years ago, after her young son had been under Chris’s care in the hospital, an old friend of mine pronounced Chris “THE Best Nurse at Children’s.” I have no doubt. Chris had all the right qualities: she was thoughtful, patient, practical, and tremendously kind. She  had an artist’s eye for detail and was unique in her ability to recognize the tiniest of subtleties—in human behavior and in art—that others often miss. She was a sweet soul who had a unexpectedly wicked (but subtle) sense of humor.

We have so many happy memories together, both as couples and as girlfriends: hundreds of Dinner-and-a-Movie nights, ridiculous parties, trips to eat delicious food and see old friends in San Francisco, a spectacular Christmas in London, Girls’ Days Out (always missing our turnoffs because we were talking too much), holiday shopping marathons, and sunny afternoons doing as little as possible on that magnificent beach up north. We loved mystery stories, turquoise home decor, lunches with gin cocktails, animals, the arts, all things British, and most anything made with pretty paper. 

Alan and I shared our lives with Chris and Steve for well over three decades, including many of our friendships with others; those friends broadened our communities then, and will sustain us now. We all know that the world was a better place because Chris was in it. We are very grateful to have been her friends, and we will miss her terribly.

Chris Murphy, such a beautiful soul, always cheerful and welcoming to all. Steve and Chris sharing their family cabin every summer with our growing families for over 20 years. Oh the memories of your cinnamon pull-apart rolls, the huge table where we shared so many delicious meals, late night crazy solitaire, beach walks searching for sea-glass and heart rocks, the children’s forts and the Maypole, fireworks and majestic sunsets. In Seattle, we’d gather for our first ever video nights at your place and all those wonderful Christmas dinners, your children’s crafts table was above and beyond. Thank you Chris for your friendship, your kindness, your beauty both inside and out. You will live forever in our hearts.  With love, the Merrill family

I’m so sorry Steve.  Chris was one of the sweetest people I’ve known.  Monte and I have you in our prayers.  I have such great memories of our trip to France and my trip to England with her and Patty.  She will be missed.

Beautiful photos of Chris. I am so sorry for your loss Steve. I've been thinking all day about all the wonderful times we shared, all those summer holiday weekends at The Cabin, the Christmas party at your home and Chris always had such fun craft activities planned for the kids, really great memories. Your home always looked so beautiful, Chris had exquisite taste. Thank you for sharing so much with our family. Much love, Michele 

What a lovely tribute to the loveliest person I have ever known. We will miss you, beautiful Auntie Chris, but you will live on in our favorite memories. Thank you for loving me as your own, for being one of my dearest friends, for your selfless heart and your way of living each day for others. Not a day will go by without my deep appreciation of the gift you have been to me, and to countless others. ❤

Chris was one of the kindest, gentlest people I've ever met.  She had a ready smile, a soft-edged assertiveness , consummate tact, a lively intellect, and a reputation as a voracious reader.   In my fondest memory of her, she is sitting by the fire at the cabin; she has a  good book in her lap but is laughingly engaged in lively conversation.  Thank you, Chris, for standing by Steve through thick and thin over the decades.

I was lucky enough to know Chris for a long time. She was kind and generous and loved by so many people. Anyone that knew her knew how much she loved Steve (my brother) and how much he loved her. Sometimes it is impossible to put into words how special someone is. I never heard Chris say an unkind word about anyone. She loved to travel and see the world. She and Steve took my three children to France when they were in high school. She knew how to celebrate holidays better than anyone I know. One time she told me her favorite holiday was Fourth of July because there were no gifts or things to worry about. It was just a time to celebrate and be with family and friends. We'd go to the festively decorated cabin, make ice cream, play games, eat delicious meals together, love and be surrounded by love.  I will miss her but I am grateful for every moment I got to spend with her.

We didn't know Chris intimately but knew her as Steve's Better half and a wonderful supportive human being.  We are thankful to have been able to witness the love and connection that was so evident in their relationship.  We Love you Steve and Chris.

I am sad for this early loss.  Chris possessed a candid graciousness, great warmth blended with a no-nonsense honesty about the challenges in living.  She was a fine nurse who went extra miles for afflicted people in their times of greatest need. I always enjoyed witnessing the dedication and assertive caring she and Steve shared for each other, each working to anticipate and provide for the other's needs.  Chris inspired me to be more deliberate in my kindness to others.