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My aunt Cenny was a very private person and she would have absolutely hated knowing I was going to post about her in Social Media. She was so private that in order to protect her family from suffering she kept it to her self she had been facing a terrible fight with cancer. However, she is gone, she has been gone for 365 long days and today in the first anniversary of her passing it was only right for me to celebrate the great woman she was.

Some would say she lost her battle against a cancer I didn’t even know she had, but it was the complete opposite, she won because it can no longer make her suffer.

Tia Cenny loved me unconditionally and I loved her back the same way. She was more than my aunt, she was my mentor, cheerleader and overall a really important role model. There hasn’t been one day I haven’t thought about her, shared issues I may be facing and somehow hearing her voice giving me advice on what to do. She always helped her family and loved her soulmate uncle Larry wholeheartedly.

This is my favorite picture of us, because it shows her amazing smile and reflects the love we had for each other.

Miss you very much Tia, and I hope wherever you are you can be certain you are still the guiding light for many of us.

Love you always, your sobrina Claudia “Rosa”

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My condolences to Cenny's husband Larry, and all her family and friends.  

I first met Cenny when I moved to Panama in 2010 to work on the Panama Canal Expansion Program.  Larry was my colleague and the first person to host my husband Tim  and I when we were touring the construction site during my reconnaissance visit before I officially took the role.  We soon met Cenny and she and I clicked immediately.  As two Latino women married to American men, we had a lot in common yet also knew and looked forward to discovering a lot more about each other. One of my fondest memories of her was when she and Larry hosted me for Thanksgiving celebrations during 2011.  By then our friendship had grown and I felt so at home in their home that it remains one of my most memorable and happy Thanksgivings ever.   Cenny was smart, funny, kind, generous...I feel very lucky to have known her and shared life in Panama with her and Larry - a couple whose love and respect for each other, people and life was so profound and contagious.  Tim and I were really saddened to hear of Cenny's passing. 

Larry, I know you will always miss her but also that she would want you to continue to live your life fully and do all the things you love. She will be with you in spirit always. Know that you can count me as a friend and that my prayers and positive thoughts are with you as you grieve and move on to the next phase of your life.  Hugs and love always,

Liliana & Tim

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Finally able to post the video of the ceremony!  Huge thanks to Claudia for editing and uploading the video.  Recording of Cenny's Celebration of Life on 7-15-2023 at Officer's Gulch Park, Frisco, Colorado.
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Video of Ceni’s view and the rock where her stones are placed.  We miss you Cenny. ❤️
The big white rock on the rig…
2023, Officers Gulch, Colorado, USA
The big white rock on the right is where we put Ceni’s stones, and her view of the mountains.

A transcript of the memories shared by Cenny's family and friends during her "Celebration of Life" has been uploaded as a program in the Events section of this memorial. We invite you to read these words describing what an amazing person she was.

Love, 

Larry and Family

It took me some time to find the photos and some words. Speaking to, knowing and reflecting on Cenny has been impactful. The photos that have been posted are exactly as I remember her, with a big smile and an easy laughter. The words that come to mind are: disarming, Latin, grinning, silly contagious laughter, decisive, positive attitude, unforgettable presence, big hats. Inspirational. I am sorry I won't get to speak to her again but am happy to have shared the time.
A viewing point looking at th…
2012, Panama Canal, Panama
A viewing point looking at the panama canal. Cenny and her easy smile with myself and my mother in the background.
Found this great photo in my …
2012, Panama Canal, Panama
Found this great photo in my old files, Larry and Cenny and the panama canal project in the background.
Larry+Cenny giving myself and…
2012, Panama Canal, Panama
Larry+Cenny giving myself and my mother a tour of the Panama canal project
Larry Belken
2023, Officers Gulch, Colorado, USA
Cenny as I knew her:
• We met when I signed up for a Spanish class that the company that I was working for (MKI) sponsored them. The project was in a remote area of Colombia and so we lived in a large camp with over 5,000 men and on average 50 single women. These women lived in a separate area called the “Chicken Ranch” and were guarded by armed guards. We were not on good terms because I wouldn’t study very much and would skip classes to go play softball at night. It was only after MKI had stopped the Spanish classes and she started to work as a translator and office administrator that we became friends. My position allowed me to live in the best private quarters. On holidays, of which there were few, if a person with one of these quarters was leaving they would usually offer others with worse quarters to stay in their quarters. So when I left for a long weekend, Cenny was staying in camp, I let her stay in my A-2. The night I came back, she was in my A-2 and so we stayed talking and then one thing led to another and it was the start of something big. The love of my life. By the way, even though I tried many times during our lives together, I just couldn’t get the hang of it and never got above rudimentary Spanish.
• She had a degree in languages, and she was good at it. Over the years she would become fluent in 4 languages; Spanish of course and English, French, and Hebrew, and could get along in Portuguese, Italian, and some Arabic. I was so proud of her for her ability.
• She was a handful. She had to have it her way or the highway. I would have to pick my battles and compromise to get what I wanted or needed. But I loved her for that and much more about her. I would mock her and call her the General as she liked to give orders.
• When we were first married that we wouldn’t go bed angry with each other and I don’t think that we ever did. We had the ability to talk to each other and come up with a solution. A good working relationship that lasted through the years.
• She was a fashionista and even if we were going to the drug store she would have to be dressed to the “nines” with her makeup on. Hats, scarfs, shoes and accessories were her thing and clothes were her thing and she wasn’t a Walmart or Target kind of girl. She didn’t care what it cost, if she wanted something she got it. Thank God she was like this even through her final days. Even for her last hospital visit for her transfusions the week before she passed, she was late trying to figure out what to wear.
• Speaking of being late, she was late for almost everything. This drove me wild, as was the guy that had to be anywhere that we were going 5 minutes before the time. The ongoing joke between the two of us was that she would be late for her own funeral and she was. The stones that we were having made from her ashes, were supposed to be here long before today and they weren’t. They will be ready before the end of July. So the rocks that are used today are a surrogate from my sister’s landscaping.
• She was a great teacher, a mentor, a rabid reader, but she was so proud of her ability to work with financial investments. She called herself an investilator and was self-taught starting this in the year of 2000. She was consumed with this new avenue in life and continued with this until she got to sick to do it anymore. She was passionate for sure.
• She was a matriarch to her family, helping financially to help them. School tuition, taxes on the farm, trips to Egypt for her family, etc. were always things that she would be sending money home. She has left me instructions to carry on helping the Polo family out, and I will.
• She had an acute sense of smell. When I could smell nothing, she would always be commenting how much this or that smelled and what to do about it. I always joked with her that we needed to get her some type of treatment so that she could smell like a normal person.
• She loved to travel and so we did:
o Egypt
o Israel
o Greece
o Turkey
o Europe
o Korea
o Kenya
o South Africa
o China
o Morocco
o To name some
• When we were in New York and yearning to go overseas again, I was offered a job in Egypt. She was thrilled to be going there. From childhood, she had always wanted to go there. She wasn’t so thrilled after getting there, as it proved to be dirty, crowded, and worse smelly. One of the first nights she was in Alexandria, we were walking downtown and we came across a 13 or 14 year old boy beggar. After walking buy, Cenny wanted to give him some money so she went back with a pound and we she got close the boy exposed himself to her. Cenny was furious. That same night as we walked through the crowds, dirty men in gallabiyahs would rub themselves up against her. She was so pissed. Welcome to a good looking women in Egypt. Different culture for sure.
• Her favorite trip was our safari to Kenya and all of the game parks. There was a group of 13 of us in 2 vans and we had a great time together. One day we were looking for lions high and low. Even the guides couldn’t find any and then Cenny says there’s a lion and everyone said that she was full of it. She wasn’t – there was a beautiful male lion laying in waist-high grass underneath a tree. We got up close and took a picture and it became known as Cenny’s lion. While recently going through everything, I found that picture and I had it blown up and framed. It brought back memories for sure.
• One day while visiting an old friend in Wyoming I found Cenny and Danny shooting targets through Danny’s kitchen window. Totally unexpected.
• Once while visiting a high school friend’s farm in Wisconsin, Steve was milking the cows and when he finished, he had to artificially inseminate a cow. Cenny wanted to experience this so she gloved up and proceeded to do the deep work while Steve took care of the other work. She was unpredictable.
• Pirates – Cenny hated a certain bug that was brown, scampering and could survive a nuclear explosion. You couldn’t use it’s real name, but she referred to it by calling them pirates. She freak out when she saw them, in Egypt, Florida, New York City, Sri Lanka, and Panama amongst other places she had to deal with them. She could handle poisonous snakes but not those guys.
• Cheese in the luggage in Scotland.
• Fly over the Golden gate bridge for our wedding anniversary in 1997.
• She traveled heavy wherever she went. She always took way too much stuff.
• She loved to exercise and worked out almost every day.
• First time in the snow in Minneapolis. Snow angels and “oh, how pretty” from the room looking down on the top of the Holiday Inn.
• Her favorite book and movie was Gone with the Wind.
• Her (our) song was Africa by Toto.
• She loved to dance and party. They called her the Dancing Queen.
• She loved life and adventure. She would be so happy to see you all here, helping her Celebrate her life well lived.
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Per Larry - Thank you Ligia a…
2023, Frisco, CO, USA
Per Larry - Thank you Ligia and Phil for the flowers! — with Ligia Busmann

Querida Cenith, siempre recuerdo tu entusiasmo por la vida, tu energía, tu franqueza, tu deseo que aprendiéramos español y tu amistad. Tengo sólo lindos recuerdos de ti. Dejas un gran vacio en nosotros y más en Larry.

Descansa en paz y cuídanos con mi papa desde las estrellas. ❤️

Dear Larry, I am so sorry you had to bear the loss of Cenith, a truly remarkable woman who loved you with all her heart.

Maria de Rijk

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