When Poppa was on FEMA deployment in California, he liked to visit us on the weekends whenever he could.  At the time, we had just two bedrooms and Dad was game to snuggle in the lower bunk, a double bed, with at least two if not all three of our boys tucked under his arms, loving the chance to cuddle their Poppa.  After an enormous weekend of fun with Dad, I got the note from school that LICE was running rampant in my elder son's class - AAAACK!  I checked, and sure enough, my boys were riddled with those blasted buggers.  Here's the thing.  Poppa's nickname from his other grandchildren was Grandpa Fuzzy, because he was genuinely fuzzy - loads of arm hair.  I was certain I had just set Dad up as the human version of the Ritz Hotel for lice, dooming him and his entire deployment to an itchy and unbearable infestation, but somehow, he skated through without a nit.  That is a superpower.    Maybe his beautiful baritone, "Dee dee dee" singing hit a frequency that the little stinkers couldn't tolerate?  So grateful for those FEMA weekend visits and the love that Dad shared with my kids. ♥

My deepest sympathies to the Ford Family. I knew Brian from his time as a fellow member of the comptroller cadre in FEMA. Spent lots of time with Brian on deployments and training at Emmitsburg.  Such a great sense of humor but at the same time totally committed to assisting those in need of disaster relief. Brian mentored me and showed great patience in assisting me during my training. I will miss him but treasure the memories always. 

Dear Marilyn and Ford Family, You were family to us while we lived in Ames. I was blessed to have some of you as piano students but even more blessed for the adoption into the Ford family. Mama Marilyn taking care of the boys and Julie plopping Tim onto a stool to have breakfast when I brought him over for my first day of long-term substitute teaching. Tim and Jon were safe and happy and loved like all the other children who were lucky enough to spend time at the Fords. Brian's hugs for me when I returned to Ames to have surgery for cancer and ready laugh and genuine caring as he lifted the boys up high to get them giggling was reassuring. What a wonderful man with an equally wonderful wife and children. May God bless and keep you and be particularly present in this time of separation. May he rest in peace. Sending you love and prayers for God's tender love to enfold you.

Dear Marilyn and family,  I am so very sorry to hear of Brian passing. When I think about him, it makes me smile. Thank you so much to you,  Marilyn, and Brian for being such special friends to my parents. They loved and appreciated you. With love and respect, Andrea Gitchell Hennessey and Bill.

My brothers and I all bonded with our grandfather in very different ways. For me, every time we'd come visit Poppa by the lake, I remember playing absurd amounts of canasta and cribbage. He had years and years of experience on me, but the man never held back. Even though I was a terrible sport, every time he'd trounce me, he'd let out a joyous "O-HO!" and I'd be too busy laughing to realize how badly I'd lost. I wish I could've played one more game with him, but his joy for cards will live in me every time I play.

Marilyn and Family…my deepest sympathy for your loss. Brian truly left a legacy of love and family.  I so enjoyed seeing the two of you at the last school reunion in Mellette. I was deeply touched when you stopped to see Mom in Michigan when you visited your son. Small town roots grow deep. May your memories bring you comfort and peace. Sherry Hawkins Wanko

Marilyn and family, we remember Brian with much fondness. You two were such good friends of our parents and helped them with such kindness. Brian will be missed.  Prayers and hugs. Joe and Vanessa Carlson.

So very sorry to here of “Bugs” passing. He was a great buddy in our youth. Will be greatly missed. 

Our Deepest Sympathy to the family.🙏

Christmas in Brainerd

A thank you from grandson Harry after a fun vacation fishing with Poppa.

Thoughts and prayers to you all!