Brendan was an extraordinary individual, even in the brief time I have been with AUArts.
If you knew Brendan you knew he was a friend to all, and always supported everyone to succeed, even if you didn’t know him, he loved ya and wanted the best for you. He wasn't the type of person to walk past someone who looked like they were in need; of a friend, someone to talk with, someone to who needed a bit of cheering up. And he would do his best to try and help.
As this new semester starts, I walk the halls with a heavy feeling in my heart. You get used to having students come around and seeing them excited or stressed about a project, and you know that despite the challenge, they'll overcome it and excel. You get excited at the prospect of a student nearing graduation or just completing the semester.I always looked forward to Brendan graduating, chasing his dreams, and living the life he had envisioned.
I cherished our occasional talks about love, life, the future, and everything beyond. Brendan had a way of lighting up the world with his magic, making every color of the world seem more vibrant. Sometimes in life it feels like we let go more than we welcome others into our lives. And, when the loss hits, the emptiness is something you can never shake.
I guess that's what we trade in, when bring people into our lives, knowing there's a space that can never be filled or replaced.
Brendan embraced his culture, his identity and encouraged others to do the same. He did everything with love and his memory lives on in all those he talked with, spent time with and helped.
If you've made it this far, just know Brendan would accept you for who are and would want you to also embrace and love the person you are.
- Gitz