BJ's obituary
Brandon Joel "BJ" Hammer, age 39, was born in Anaheim, California, on Friday, November 8, 1985, to Wynette Hammer and the late Scott Hammer. BJ passed away unexpectedly on Wednesday, April 9, 2025, in Council Bluffs, Iowa.
BJ's journey began in California, where he attended Chino High School before taking a proficiency exam to skip straight into college after his junior year. He graduated from ITT Tech with an AA degree, earning the distinction of Valedictorian, summa cum laude. Throughout his life, BJ lived in Southern California, Northern California, the Phoenix area, and Las Vegas, before finally settling in the Council Bluffs/Omaha area in 2021 to be closer to his family.
From an early age, BJ displayed an extraordinary talent for fixing things. He was notorious for his resourcefulness and creativity—give him duct tape, a paperclip, and a roll of twine, and he could MacGyver a solution to almost any problem. He was inventive, adaptable, and could repair everything from consumer electronics to cars and household systems. He never found anything broken that couldn't be fixed, seeing possibilities where others saw obstacles.
BJ's professional career reflected his technical abilities and dedication to continuing education. He recently worked for Eaton as a Utility P&C Technician, helping build substations. His diverse work experience included high-end home theater installation and serving as a lead installer for Sunrun Solar. BJ also completed several specialized training courses through the laborers union, including asbestos abatement, Ebola containment, and concrete work. Throughout each role and training program, his exceptional problem-solving skills and meticulous attention to detail made him a valued team member.
Beyond his professional life, BJ was a loving son who shared a special bond with his mother, Wynette. He was a devoted uncle who treasured his time with his brothers' children and his best friend Charlie's children. He was always willing to get the kids playing and smiling. BJ was fiercely protective of his family and friends, always ready to stand up for those he cared about. His generosity extended beyond his immediate family—he was eager to help grandparents, neighbors, and anyone in need with projects and repairs. Those closest to him experienced firsthand his selfless nature and willingness to lend a hand. In his free time, BJ enjoyed hunting for treasures at thrift stores and transforming spaces with his found items. Above all, he cherished spending quality time with those he cared about most.
BJ's passing came way too soon. His family and friends will carry on his memory, love and miss him dearly, cherishing the memories they each had with him.
BJ is preceded in death by his father, Scott Hammer; uncle, Mark Cooper; grandfather, Gary Cooper; grandmothers, Sharon Hammer and Londa Hammer.
BJ is survived by his mother, Wynette Hammer (Council Bluffs, Iowa); 3 brothers, Adam Hammer, Justin (Krista) Hammer, and Zach (Heidi) Hammer; best friend, Charlie (Sarah) Winder (California); 11 nieces and nephews, Aria, Edison, Jake, Kade, Noah, Haley, James, Adalynn, Eliana, Logan, and Emily; aunt, Susie (Mark) Porter (Honey Creek, Iowa); 2 uncles, Steve (Jill) Hammer (Phoenix, Arizona) and Brian Cooper (La Habra Heights, California); grandmother, Frances Cooper (La Habra Heights, California); grandfather, Vic Hammer (Goodyear, Arizona); his "Stephanie" Stephanie Cooper (Oak Harbor, Washington); as well as cousins, extended family, and many friends.
BJ has been cremated and there will be a private memorial service held at a later date.
"My beautiful, blue eyed, precious son. BJ was funny, kind, full of energy that wouldn't stop. His smile and laughter were infectious. He easily gave—his money, his talents, his time, his love." — Wynette Hammer, mother
"I miss you BJ. While I am crushed in spirit - your fight is done, and I truly hope you have peace." — Zach Hammer, brother
"I love you little brother, and I'll forever miss you. May you finally know peace." — Justin Hammer, brother
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