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Out to dinner in Lodi with lo…
2023
Out to dinner in Lodi with longtime friend Sue Ross and daughter Kirsten
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Betty and her spirit sister f…
Betty and her spirit sister friend Natascha enjoying the lilacs at OConnor Woods
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Betty and daughter Kirsten en…
Betty and daughter Kirsten enjoying a wildlife tour at Elkhorn Slough
Betty earned two special hand…
2012
Betty earned two special handmade Master Gardener Garden Tour tiles for featuring her Stockton Garden,
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Betty with Jason, Zach, Ben, …
Betty with Jason, Zach, Ben, Kirsten, Mara and Manu at Seymour Marine Discovery Center during the years she owned a vacation property in Santa Cruz
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Betty out to lunch in Felton,…
Betty out to lunch in Felton, California with Kirsten and her friend Pam Howell
Out to the movies in Santa Cr…
Out to the movies in Santa Cruz with Dorothy Bruckner whom she clearly delighted in.
Out to breakfast with daughte…
Out to breakfast with daughter Kirsten and one of Bettys beloved Stockton teacher friends Nancy Sperro (?).
Betty loving the fun of a vis…
Betty loving the fun of a visit to son Jason and Diedra's Placerville home with grandkids Ben and Charlie.
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Betty loved a visit from Char…
Betty loved a visit from Charlie, her friend Linda Driver's dog - a favorite pooch!
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Shelly Troop and Betty felt l…
Shelly Troop and Betty felt like they were soul sisters immediately, sharing characteristics like sassy and no-B.S. talk. Shelly stayed in touch with Betty even after she moved to Texas. Betty loved her right back as you can tell from this photo taken in Betty's independent living apartment at OConnor Woods.
More beloved teacher friends …
More beloved teacher friends Liz and Nancy who showered Betty with hugs when visiting and calls and greeting cards when far away and al.ays lots of laughter,
Saying goodnight to Charlie a…
Saying goodnight to Charlie and Linda Driver, Betty's friend from Master Gardeners, after a dinner hosted by Linda at the Stockton Yacht Club.
Betty with her friend Dorothy , Natascha’s mom and one of Dorothy’s triplet sisters while they vacationed in Santa Cruz
Betty with her sons and their…
Betty with her sons and their families at Seymour Marine Discovery Center in Santa Cruz
Betty on a trip to Santa Cruz…
2023
Betty on a trip to Santa Cruz to explore potential places to move to. We stayed at the Dream Inn for a fancy ocean-side vacation
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Betty with spirit sister and …
2023
Betty with spirit sister and family friend Natascha on a visit at Betty’s OConnor woods home where they always went out and enjoyed the gorgeous oak trees and koi pond.
Betty enjoying family at brot…
2024
Betty enjoying family at brother Bob Brown’s celebration of life - with Bobs wife Pat and daughter Michelle
Betty, and son Zach, Mara and…
Betty, and son Zach, Mara and Manu at their Santa Cruz home
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Betty with Charlie during a visit with friend and dog mom Linda Driver
Betty with high school or college friends ?
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Betty with Dublin educator fr…
Betty with Dublin educator friends , possibly at Frank Nolte’s Mt Tam cabin
Kirsten Liske
2025, Santa Cruz, CA, USA

We wanted to share the story of Betty's passing days because it was as soulful, beautiful, supported and lightfilled as Betty deserved.

Mom Betty Jeanne Brown Liske passed in deep peace with Zach meditating with his hand on her heart around 11 PM on Monday night 8/4 after a weekend of visitors including her grandkids and lots of time 1:1 with each of us kids. Late evening was one of her favorite times of day.

Together we had made a flower mandala as folks visited with their offerings - just like the school kids did in India for her because she was a teacher due great respect when she traveled to visit their schools as a Fullbright scholar. We played voicemails and read from text messages that folks called in and sent to her phone and we could see that she heard them as she responded.

Moments before she passed Grandson Charlie texted a piano improvisation he did for Grandma and we played it for her as she passed.

We kids were all with her and sat for a long time with her in deep peace and reflection. When the Hospice nurse came she said she had seen the biggest shooting star she’d ever seen in the sky as she drove to Maple House where we were.

We bathed mom in pure mountain water I’d brought back from my backpack trip, adding essential oils and rubbed healing oils into her skin, hands and feet. We all helped dress her in a favorite cotton top and linen pants, later changing her into a sweet white skirt and sweater for her cremation. Zach made sure her feet were cozy and donated his wool socks since she loved cozy wool socks.

We made a posey of flowers from ones all had given this week and sent it with her body. We followed the van there in the deep night- me racing on my bike the few blocks as I could keep up and J and Z in the car so she was well shepherded. She is at a local chapel which we have been going to sit and contemplate/ keep her body company until she is cremated later this week. At the chapel bloom her favorite flowers and she is watched over by an old growth mother tree we think is a cedar- protector of the heart.

The room was filled with so much love, calm and ease when she passed. Zach felt like mom was laughing her amazing laugh in bliss and I felt her spirit somersaulting in joy . Jason was so moved that she is now free of restrictions of a declining body and mind. We are feeling relieved and deep grief and all the things in waves and know you are too.

We went several times and sat in reflection at the chapel while her body awaited cremation, and we scheduled a viewing so we could surround her with flowers, purifying plants, photos and greeting cards with loving messages many of you had sent over the years.

We are feeling into your love and support for us and Betty Jeanne. I know she would be saying “thank you” with her deep eye connection and then a “its huge, huge, huge” with eyes closed taking it in. What a gift, and as I say that I realize Betty would also use that phrase too… What a gift.

❤️💔💖

You have all our love.

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