Dear Elisabeth, Gracelyn and Michael, 

Sending you my memory of your Mom when I worked with her on a project. I worked at DOH.  I didn't see her a lot, but when I did, here's what I remember.

I'll never forget her beautiful loving face and warm smile  as she greeted me at the door of the NYSTEC office. 

She was very happy that she got to work with me as she knew I was very knowledgeable about our project and technology. She always sought me out and wanted my input. She was gracious, and interested in everything we did, trying to assist and solve a formulation for the project we had to accomplish. I know that she was appreciative and I loved that she loved working with me.

It was such a a bonus for me to see her coming to my church. She'd always say hello with a big friendly smile. A plus was we worked on council together. From work to church . It was awesome!  She was delightful and so funny ; and a wonderful person to be in concert with. She loved to have fun and a laugh as she made suggestions and worked out the details . I'm sure she's having a ball in heaven😉😘

My take away was she was serious but always realized life is off balance, and needs to have humor. She was right on the same page with me. I love to laugh too and not take anything that isn't that serious without a joke about it. 

I learned a good lesson from your mother..you never know who in business you're going to have in your personal life so always be kind and loving and top off any non critical topic with a good laugh.

I'll always remember her and her loving spirit. Happy birthday in heaven sweet Beth. You are so dearly missed ! 💖

Gracelyn,  I am so sorry for your loss.  I can't imagine the pain and sorrow that you are feeling.  I hope that you can remember our conversations and do everything in your power to remain positive.  You are such an amazing person with endless potential.  Stay strong.

Mr. Hayward