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In memory of
Andrew "Xoebe" Hugh Mays
December 7, 1965 - July 9, 2023
Dec 7, 1965 - Jul 9, 2023
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Personal note from Lilly, Daisy, and Sully
Obituary
Andrew Hugh Mays left our world on the morning of July 9th, 2023. He is survived by his three adult children, Lilly Elizabeth Mays, Madeleine Daisy Mays, and Sullivan Bailey Mays.
Andy graduated from Texas A&M university in 1987 with a Bachelor's in Landscape Architecture. He was active in the Corps of Cadets and a member of the Texas A&M Student Chapter of the ASLA.
Everyone who's had the privilege to know him, knew the …
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What were Andrew's favorite songs or musical artists?
Dad had a taste for experimental rock, gorgeous feminine vocals, and upbeat dance mu…
Dad had a taste for experimental rock, gorgeous feminine vocals, and upbeat dance music. He in…
Dad had a taste for experimental rock, gorgeous feminine vocals, and upbeat dance music. He introduced me to artists li…
What was Andrew's favorite color?
Maroon and white, baby! Gigem!
Maroon and white, baby! Gigem!
Maroon and white, baby! Gigem!
What causes did Andrew care about most?
Healthcare reform, Trans & LGBTQ rights, Anti-Fascism, and to Fight fo the Right to …
Healthcare reform, Trans & LGBTQ rights, Anti-Fascism, and to Fight fo the Right to Party
Healthcare reform, Trans & LGBTQ rights, Anti-Fascism, and to Fight fo the Right to Party
What were Andrew's favorite ways to spend free time?
Complaining about not having enough time
Complaining about not having enough time
Complaining about not having enough time
Timeline
Born
December 7th, 1965
Passed away
July 9th, 2023
Fredericksburg, TX
Survived by
Madeleine Daisy Mays
Daughter
Sullivan Bailey Mays
Son
Liz Schmidt
Partner
Lilly Elizabeth Mays
Daughter
Bridget Malmstedt
Ex-partner
Figgy Pudding
Grandkitty
Benji BingBong
Grandkitty
Ellyn Sleeth
Nephew
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Other key details
Cause of death
Suicide
Method of disposition
Cremation
Funeral services provided by
Schaetter Funeral Home
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Madeleine Daisy Mays (Andrew's daughter) and
Lilly Elizabeth Mays (Andrew's daughter).
