Andrew "Xoebe" Hugh Mays's Favorites

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Andrew "Xoebe" Hugh Mays

Fredericksburg, TX

December 7, 1965 - July 9, 2023

Dec 7, 1965 - Jul 9, 2023

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What were Andrew's favorite drinks?

Madeleine Daisy Mays

Boddington's Pub Ale Draught! Boddington's Pub Ale Draught! Boddington's Pub Ale Draught!

Lilly Elizabeth Mays

Brawndo's got what plants crave. It's got electrolytes. Brawndo's got what plants crave. It's got electrolytes. Brawndo's got what plants crave. It's got electrolytes.... Read more

Don Lovingfoss

Well… I never met a drink he did not like. But at one time he loved margaritas! Well… I never met a drink he did not like. But at one time he loved margaritas! Well… I never met a drink he did not like. But at one... Read more

What were Andrew's favorite sports teams?

Madeleine Daisy Mays

Texas A&M Aggie Football Texas A&M Aggie Football Texas A&M Aggie Football

Don Lovingfoss

That’s right, Aggie football. The next year was always gonna be their best That’s right, Aggie football. The next year was always gonna be their best That’s right, Aggie football. The next year was always... Read more

What were Andrew's favorite movies?

Madeleine Daisy Mays

Dogs in Space Dogs in Space Dogs in Space

Lilly Elizabeth Mays

Interstellar Interstellar Interstellar

Lilly Elizabeth Mays

Lord of the Rings, Extended Editions Lord of the Rings, Extended Editions Lord of the Rings, Extended Editions

Don Lovingfoss

That’s one area we did not connect on other than “We’ve never been licked”. The Aggie corps days during ... Read more That’s one area we did not connect on other than “We’ve never been licked”. The Aggie corps days during WWII That’s one area we did not connect on other than “We’ve... Read more

Liz Burge

Game of thrones Game of thrones Game of thrones

What were Andrew's favorite games to play?

Madeleine Daisy Mays

World of Warcraft World of Warcraft World of Warcraft

Lilly Elizabeth Mays

...and before WoW there was Dungeon Siege, Dark Age of Camelot, & Diablo 2! ...and before WoW there was Dungeon Siege, Dark Age of Camelot, & Diablo 2! ...and before WoW there was Dungeon Siege, Dark Age... Read more

Madeleine Daisy Mays

He also loved the game "Go" and taught his mom, myself, and Kaja to play. Kaja whooped his ass. He also loved the game "Go" and taught his mom, myself, and Kaja to play. Kaja whooped his ass. He also loved the game "Go" and taught his mom, myself,... Read more

Don Lovingfoss

Not sure, but one time we played “jacks” with a bowling ball Not sure, but one time we played “jacks” with a bowling ball Not sure, but one time we played “jacks” with a bowling... Read more

What were Andrew's favorite ways to spend free time?

Madeleine Daisy Mays

Complaining about not having enough time Complaining about not having enough time Complaining about not having enough time

Don Lovingfoss

Loved hanging out and talking. Then ended up doing something crazy to get our adrenaline going Loved hanging out and talking. Then ended up doing something crazy to get our adrenaline going Loved hanging out and talking. Then ended up doing... Read more

What causes did Andrew care about most?

Madeleine Daisy Mays

Healthcare reform, Trans & LGBTQ rights, Anti-Fascism, and to Fight fo the Right to Party Healthcare reform, Trans & LGBTQ rights, Anti-Fascism, and to Fight fo the Right to Party Healthcare reform, Trans & LGBTQ rights, Anti-Fascism,... Read more

Lilly Elizabeth Mays

Ukrainian sovereignty Ukrainian sovereignty Ukrainian sovereignty

What was Andrew's favorite color?

Madeleine Daisy Mays

Maroon and white, baby! Gigem! Maroon and white, baby! Gigem! Maroon and white, baby! Gigem!

What were Andrew's favorite songs or musical artists?

Lilly Elizabeth Mays

Dad had a taste for experimental rock, gorgeous feminine vocals, and upbeat dance music. He introduced me... Read more Dad had a taste for experimental rock, gorgeous feminine vocals, and upbeat dance music. He introduced me to artists like Portishead... Read more Dad had a taste for experimental rock, gorgeous feminine... Read more