Notifications

No notifications
We will send an invite after you submit!

Xerxes's obituary

Xerxes Oliver Equila Valencia, 44, a life long resident of the Bay Area, lived in San Leandro and passed away on July 11, 2023.

Xerxes, also known as Ivy was born in Oakland, CA on November 13,1978. He was survived to parents Xavier Valencia, Sr and Myrna Equila, brother Xavier Jr., sister-in-law Ann, niece Xylia, and nephew Xavier, III.

After Xerxes graduated from Hogan High School, he went to study to become a CNA. After completing the CNA program he worked at UCSF for a few years. He then later spent many years at Eden Hospital, where he enjoyed helping his patients, supporting his co-workers and finding the nearest potluck in one of the break rooms.

Xerxes loved his family dearly! He was especially proud when he become an uncle, he adored his niece Xylia and nephew Xavier, III. He was a die hard Raiders, A’s and Warriors fan. If there was a tail gate or opening day you know he was there! If he was not at work or at games, he was watching movies, particularly in rotation was Marvel movies, Top Gun, or Maverick. He was a karaoke superstar! If anyone or anyplace had a karaoke machine, you would for sure find Xerxes looking through the binder to find a song to sing. We all knew once he gets a hold of the microphone though, there was no way anyone would be able to get their chance to sing. Xerxes now has his own personal microphone and can sing to his hearts content. He will be deeply missed by family, friends, and all who knew him.

Family, friends, and others whose lives Xerxes touched are invited to the

Chapel of the Chimes

32992 Mission Blvd, Hayward, CA 94544

Wednesday, August 2nd 4:00 PM - 7:00 PM

Thursday, August 3rd 4:00 PM - 7:00 PM

Friday, August 4th 8:30 AM - 10:00 AM

Print this obituary

Order a beautiful PDF you can print and save or share.

Want to stay updated?

Get notified when new photos, stories and other important updates are shared.
Flower

Send flowers

Share your sympathy. Send flowers from a local florist to Xerxes's family or funeral.
Helping hands

Add to his legacy

Please consider a donation to any cause of your choice.

Memories & condolences

I still can't believe you're gone. 

Miss you and your laughter and just your presence.  

Hugs to your family.  ❤️

I still can't believe you're gone. 

Miss you and your laughter and just your presence.  

Hugs to your…

I still can't believe you're gone. 

Miss you and your laughter an…

Share your memories

Post a photo, tell a story, or leave your condolences.

Get grief support

Connect with others in a formal or informal capacity.
×

Stay in the loop

Xerxes Valencia